How hard it is to set the past behind and look ahead! Preparing for new connections is challenging, but accepting the loss of a relationship is harder.
Fearing the consequences, many people maintain hurtful relationships.
Have you considered the risks of staying in an uncomfortable circumstance today? By following concepts like “What if I don’t meet anyone else?”, “What if I have remorse?”, and “What if everything ends badly?”, you get trapped halfway.
Keeping several past openings distracts.
Getting rid of what you know and has affected you is difficult.
Having numerous viewpoints on the past distracts you from the present.
This applies to all aspects of life. You cannot enjoy new friends when you contemplate and mourn for that one who deceived you.
Turning your back on the past offers you opportunity to pursue your objectives and make new goals.
Break free from the past and seize possibilities
Keeping a door open because you hope to repeat a regrettable life is a mistake. Your past was good and gave you powerful feelings. You can't stay trapped since the future has worthwhile experiences.
Constantly waiting for your best friend to return makes her unreal. Grow up, appear different, relocate to another place, and embrace every chance. Don't worry about being there for strays.
You can't spend your life waiting for someone who went without an explanation or doesn't even visit to honour you.
Maybe they'll regret and look for you, but what if they don't? If others value you or you value yourself without regard to others, will you live alone?
Past obsession that makes you sad
People from the past are supposed to be depressed. It's easy to believe if you think about it. When you just recall what you had, you forget what you have now and could have.
This is why drawing a line under the sun is crucial. Living in nostalgia for what you were isn't good. Remembering your roots helps you stay grounded, but you must be more careful with what you have now.
Enjoy what you have, laugh with others, and plan forward. Doing otherwise is pointless. The worst that may happen to you is that you'll be sad in ten years for not living your best life.
Be realistic and see the future as an opportunity.
You may believe a friendship can never end since your friend can help you achieve your goals. That may be true, but is this friend ready? He may not consider you a friend.
You can also participate in uninteresting circumstances. While keeping your doors open may seem like a good idea, it will simply increase commitments that will eventually become a strain.
Our terrible habit is not letting go of the past. We believe in “just in case” possibilities. In case that friend needs us, that ex-lover seeks us again, that employment chance arises, etc.