Unconscious self-sabotage prevents success. People put themselves up to fail by unintentional actions.
Why is self-sabotage so common? Because of her unaware ego. Rejection, abandonment, humiliation, betrayal, and injustice are ego wounds. Injury-specific sabotage behaviours are listed here.
Count your self-recognition remarks to determine your sabotage level.
When I feel useless, unworthy, or imperfect, I don't get a job that will help me appreciate myself.
In groups, I isolate myself in hopes that people will approach me, yet the opposite happens.
In groups, I stay back. I think I'm boring when my words may make me seem smart.
I'm a perfectionist who repeats things, which slows me down.
I repeat things to improve. I just waste energy doing the unattainable.
I ask for many opinions before acting to garner attention and lose sight of what's best for myself.
Jealousy in my connections (spouse, friends, family) drives my partner away.
For my lover, I pirouette in hopes of being loved more. Then I must admit I didn't listen to my requirements.
I wouldn't sit with an angry or hostile individual. So I feel alone and self-disappointed.
I tolerate a bad relationship to avoid abandonment as I feel increasingly alone.
Doing everything to please God/a supreme authority makes me ignore my necessities.
I prioritise others' needs. I expect the same from them and attract many disappointments.
I dread hurting others if I'm honest, which hurts my relationships.
My tendency to make excuses often lets others take advantage of me.
My love of sweet food overflows because I keep back my sexuality and sensuality.
My concern for others prevents me from satisfying my physical needs.
My misinterpretation of spirituality inhibits me from living my best sex life.
I can't accept I'm lovely and generous because I'm easily disgusted with myself.
My need to blame others to appear important and immaculate divides me from them.
I desire honours and accolades to appear unique, which alienates others.
I feel respected for what I do, not what I am, thus I am always busy.
I think I'll feel better after my list is done, but that rarely happens, so I'm usually disappointed.
I want compliments by becoming the greatest at everything. Therefore, praises never meet my expectations.
Procrastinating so much for fear of making a mistake makes me do nothing until it's too late.
To be perfect, I don't cry, while others call me cold and cruel.
I keep my cool. My buried rage creates headaches, gastrointestinal issues, and other discomforts.
Hard and demanding on my body causes a significant physical problem.
I think I'm helping someone by interrupting them when they're being unfair, even when it hurts our relationship.
I show off my knowledge thinking others will appreciate it, but it alienates them because they feel inadequate.
Total your attitudes and behaviours and divide by 45 to calculate your sabotage percentage.
If something often inhibits you from having, doing, or becoming what you desire, ask friends and family how you sabotage yourself. Why not have them take the test for you? This can help you become more conscious and assess your self-evaluation.
Who will guide you later? Your ego or heart? Listening to your heart and spirit is your main purpose on Earth.