Why getting better about being rejected can help you succeed in life

We all feel rejection to varying degrees. Most excruciating injuries...

Rejection is the first of the five soul wounds to awaken. The same-sex parent activates it from conception because they also endured and now suffer from this injury.

For those who have read the book, I remind you that rejection wounds exist even though they are not visible. However, this person denies it, hiding it under other wounds. It's mostly veiled by injustice, which the same-sex parent activates.

Active, not induced, because we already have this pain in our spirit from prior incarnations and are always drawn to parents with similar life objectives, which activates both sides of these wounds.

Your wound of injustice may be present more regularly, but you still feel rejected. The anguish of escape (rejection) is buried beneath your stiff shell (injustice), which changes your behaviour. Thus, your agony grows.

The most painful of the five soul wounds is rejection, therefore our ego does everything it can to shield us from feeling it, believing we cannot manage it. DOING DENIAL.

When we reach our limit of buried suffering and refuse to acknowledge it, a serious sickness appears.

Even if he knows he's sick, the inflexible person will struggle to admit it. Taking care of himself will be secret. He boasts about never taking medication or seeing a doctor.

The fugitive denies being ill and does not consult a doctor or talk about his troubles because he is frightened of upsetting others. So you can see why shifty and stiff people don't notice their body's various warnings until they get cancer.

The more a person is rejected, the more they hate their same-sex father, their first role model, because he represents what they don't want to be. Nothing can make an indifferent person detest something. Hatred requires empathy.

Thus, hatred is not malice but rather a lack of self-love that others mirror back to him.

People typically appear “cold” due to these two wounds. These people are good at disguising their sensitivity, pressing it deep inside themselves. They don't know how to regulate it. They act as though not experiencing reduces their agony, yet it only increases.

Accepting yourself with your flaws and virtues and living all kinds of situations as a human rather than a flawless person is all it takes to love yourself. We'll cease letting our ego, which lives in good or evil and judges rather than accepts our human status, influence us.

Remember that others (including your parent) are there to assist you see what you don't like about yourself.

Did you know I wrote a book about rejection wounds and cancer (or any severe illness)? Cancer is a hopeful novel.

In conclusion, awareness makes you appreciate yourself more and experience your body's signals faster. Remember that your body is your best friend.

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