Usually before we do something, we are always used to estimate the success rate of it. If the probability of success is less than our expectations, we will often give up doing it rationally.
This is true of Murphy's Law: if you think you can't do it, you'll never do it.
The crippled Roosevelt was born in 1882 in a manor on the Hudson River in the United States. At the age of 18, Roosevelt was admitted to Harvard University through his own efforts.
After graduating in 1904, he went to Columbia Law School to study law.
After being elected to the New York Senate, the fledgling Roosevelt quickly became a newsmaker by advocating innovation.
But then, at the age of 39, he was stricken with polio and could only walk with two crutches and a wheelchair.
But Roosevelt did not give in under the weight of his illness. He began to exercise hard.
In order to move his limbs, he often crawled like a child. At last he became the twenty-second president of the United States. Isn't it because of his strong will that he succeeded?
The famous Napoleon, since childhood set up a lofty ambition, to do a good general.
So when he was ten years old, his parents decided to send him to a military school, where Napoleon always kept in mind his goal, studied hard, forgot to eat and sleep, and achieved so well that he was rated by the school to be an excellent sailor.
So he was sent to Paris.
Military school.
In 1879, as the French Revolution broke out, the Anti-French Coalition attacked France.
Napoleon was only twenty-four years old when he became a commander with his decisiveness and superb military ability.
After Napoleon became a commander, he still set an example and demanded his army strictly. It was because of his lofty ambition and outstanding talent that he finally won the title of the first general in Europe.
After saving for years to get a first-class ticket to Australia, a cash-strapped couple decided to take their children to the rich world.
Since the ship will be at sea for more than ten days, in order to reduce unnecessary expenses, my wife prepared a large amount of food before boarding the ship.
However, when the children saw the variety of food in the luxurious restaurant, they could not help but beg their parents to be able to.
Try something delicious you've never seen before.
The proud couple, fearing they would be looked down upon by diners, kept their children at the door of the lower cabin.
Throughout the trip, the children had to eat what their parents brought.
The couple were as eager to taste the food as the children.
The thought of his empty purse dispelled the idea.
With a day to go, they took the food and ate it up.
In desperation, the couple turned to the waiters, hoping they would give the children something to eat, if only scraps.
The waiter was shocked at their entreaty and asked, Why don't you go to the restaurant?
The father replied, "We don't have any money. We are not like those in the upper class.
The dining room.
All the food, the ticket you buy just determines where you sleep.
Hearing the waiter's reply, the couple were stunned. No one had restricted their access to the luxurious restaurant. It was in their minds that they had set up a barrier, believing that only first-class passengers could enjoy the food at will.
If we had warmed up, we would not have eaten the food we brought all the way, and we would not have missed the opportunity to enjoy food for more than ten days.
Many times we make the mistake of complaining about fate, complaining about unfavorable circumstances, deciding that there will be no good outcome before we do something, and then watching the opportunity pass us by.
As everyone knows, the key to creating a wonderful life is not chance, not luck, but the courage to try.
Don't say no to something you haven't done. Let it go.
The concerns boldly take the first step even if failure, big deal back to the origin.
Besides, who's to say you're gonna lose.
So how can we build up the confidence to accomplish our goals?
First, make a plan.
If you want to accomplish something, you have to have a plan.
The first thing you need to do is estimate the time. Ask yourself how much time you need to complete the task, and consider whether you will allow enough time to complete the task.
When the time is well established, we need to make specific plans and divide the goals into small tasks to complete. Moreover, the time span of making plans should not be too long, because the shorter the plan time, the clearer and more feasible it will be.
Second, follow the plan in an orderly way.
Sure.
All right, the plan is to get started fast, without delay.
If you make a plan and you don't act on it, it doesn't matter how perfect the plan is.
Many of us procrastinate and are afraid to start something because we're afraid we won't do it right. But who can do it right the first time?
You need to be realistic and try to do it one step at a time.
Others are afraid to do things because they are afraid of being laughed at.
Actually, don't worry about that either, because the people who make fun of people, they're the ones who haven't done a good job at it, and we don't have to care, because their comments don't make sense.
On the other hand, the person who does it well won't mock you because he knows how hard it was to get it done, and even the evaluation will give constructive suggestions.
So be brave.
Too lazy to get started and perform.
In a word, life can not be smooth, the difficulties in life may cause us to fail, and the winner and loser are often between that side, if you have not done before thinking that you will fail, then you will never achieve success.
On the contrary, even if it is a failure, you think is I want to insist, I want to work hard.
Then you are definitely a persevering person.