Hi @a3abghani, dear follower. I apologize coming too late to your blog to have a look. Now I see you stopped blogging already and I see the reason for this too. You have blogged a lot but not gathered STEEM. That's not the promise of the Steem so I like to help you. Normally I say: You are participant of a Beta software. Stop blogging an read! Now, you've already stopped. I give you stuff to read now. But first I tell you:

Don't believe Steemit is like facebook!

This is a blasted marketing speech from people in new York, they don't know how facebook really is. Here you are member of a coin mine! Build up your own community, blog like Steemians do and you will earn good STEEM-Coins on daily base. No problem, iif you always check the Steems Five

• Voting – is your bounden duty on the Steem.
• Commenting – is your voice on the Steem.
• Resteem – is the conscience of the Steem.
• Blogging – is your art on the Steem.
• Following – shows friends on the Steem.

Nevertheless the Steem is overloaded by English helps and advices, it is noticeable you don't know how to steem in the right manner. That's not really a fault of you. It is, just how the most newbies start to steem, because they've heard, Steemit is like facebook. But this is worse wrong. Steemit is not like Facebook! It is just a blasted, stupid PR-speech, only good for misguiding every newby into the wrong direction.

Before you post, you should have a look to other steemians good voted postings. I don't mean the mostly stupid posts in the Trending– or Hot–blog. I mean postings like normal, average Steemians are producing. What do you see there?

Probably you will recorgnize there is a kind of common construction. You have to know, there are lot of things you should not do in a posting. The best you can do now, is stop posting and read first . Sorry of my funny English. i'm not a native tongue. Now I give the welcome to you, I normally give to every English talken newbie I'm in conversation with.

Here you got a real good FAQ.

The Complete Steemit Etiquette Guide (Revision 2.0)

What happens on your steem account?
https://steemd.com/@a3abghani

Closer look to your account:
https://steemdb.com/@a3abghani
Here, activity and social are the most impiortant parts in menu)

What is STEEM?
https://steemit.com/steem/@teamsteem/steem-an-in-depth-overview

@cheetah visited your comment section?
https://steemit.com/steemitabuse/@cheetah/cheetah-bot-explained

You are looking for a private chat or very quick help?
https://steemit.chat
I'm located in the channel „deutsch“. But I'm not so quick. A lot of other Steemians will give you advice, if you ask in the chat!
Inside the Steemit-software you can contact the community on Werner's blog. He is publishing every week a posting named Without any context for Steemians to ask questions in the comments area. We answer always. It seems to be pure German, but we all are able to write in english as well! Just ask in the comments section (Reply)!

Okay, this might be enough for the first lessons. Read, and then you know how to steem in the right manner. Hope to see you on the top of Trending list one day! (Joke. You can't, because all the whalefriends are located there, only. If you study these blogs you know a lot about average intelligecy of the whales.) If you have further questions, now you know how to contact me and the chat.

Steem on, dear newbie. Don't give up! We have a lot of fun in Steemit and earn coins too.