Let's see, how do I put this.. You know that person you would want to love? What would you want them to love you for, if you ever met them? This isn't about creating an alter-ego to ensnare the person of your dreams, but more about discovering and accepting what makes you you, so that you have a better understanding of who you really should be dreaming about, and who would inevitably be a nightmare. But as @weirdheadaches stated, chances are they will pop up in your life when you are too engulfed in what makes you happy to even be dreaming of another person. Chances are they will also be doing what makes them happy. Chances are you can also do things together that make you both happy. Chances are you won't have to leech their precious vitality just to have your own. And maybe, just maybe you won't drive each other to complete madness. And knowing that soulmates are a crockpot of shit, you might just survive, even if the relationship doesn't. Because you are your soulmate. And now you have all the time to yourself. And your dog <3