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Divorce is currently happening because each partner does not accept the reality, too much hope for the couple while the reality is not the case. for example a man wants his wife to remain beautiful and slim, in fact a woman's body can change over time let alone after childbirth.

Finances in inadequate households, money is everything in the household, all bills, tuition fees, living expenses every family member must be paid with money. a family condition that is difficult in the economy often leads to frustration in couples so that it becomes the beginning of contention.

Big families who are too interfering in marital life.
I see the role of a large family in causing divorce, for example the couples parent who is bad about his son-in-law.

Affair
Betraying a spouse is a big reason for divorce. A relationship will not go smoothly if there is an affair in the household. I have seen how the treasure can run out because of infidelity, and also infidelity has led to a divorce, so in addition to being poor he also lost a partner and eventually he became a drug addict for decades.

With the advancement of technology, social media and what is being presented on television these days, it's no wonder that kids and teenagers alike days have become way too impulsive.

The moment they get attracted to someone, they think that their love are now marriage-material without even completely knowing the person. Months after, they would eventually get used to each other and will most likely end up fed up with each others attitudes thus the divorce happens,

Yeah you are right that there are plenty divorces happening in marriages these days,well i believe that the foundation of a marriage iis what will determine how long that marriage will last

We need to understand that some people marry for the wrong reasons and also some people marry because of lust or societal pressure,some people got married for selfish reasons and when these people get married and they begin to face the reality then they begin to get tired of the marriage and divorce would be the best option for them

That is why i will always advice anyone that they should always ensure that they get married for the right reasons and make sure they they understand that there will be challenges in a marriage and they must have the ability to manage crisis in the marriage

Married to and is being romantic, ought to be grateful and maintain chemistry as a pair of husband and wife. The thing is, an awful lot of spouses who fail to keep the flame of love between them and was forced to break the bonds that have formed together. Surely already know well that the cause of the divorce one of them is a misfit in communicating. But behind it, it should be no more reasons why marriage was unsuccessful. Some of the reasons divorce today;

  1. rush married could be due to age, financial, or trigger fear was captured others, some people tend to be in a hurry when deciding to get married. In fact, many are recognizing that fact from the beginning they already sense that there is a problem between them and their partners. But they assume that all that will be done also later after getting married.

  2. Losing its identity if it was too dependent on husbands or wives, does not want to do anything without it, will lose their real identity. As a result, the difficulty of positioning itself in the relationship. The wife and the husband does not know what you want and what to do to keep your marriage.

  3. Too busy responsibility as a parent when the recently married, relationships with friends who are still single so tenuous because it is too focused on a new husband. Same is the case when just had a baby and are busy raising children. so forget to note and prioritize husbands or wives.

  4. Have a different vision After getting married, just realized that the wife and the husband turns out to be really different. He would like to develop a career and focus on their business, while one of them would like to soon have children and spend as much time with the family. Why is this never discussed prior to marriage? Well, usually when many couples going out with hide or harbored different vision. prefer to discuss the similarities myself. But later the difference that will be the food everyday you guys after married.

  5. the problematic sex life is somehow not interested at all for sex with husband or wife. Or if it still does it, all that lived as a formality only. Any husband or wife could never be satisfied. It is so can affect mood and chemistry as husband and wife. Maybe it's because deep down inside, there's something wrong in the relationship who are afraid to talk about.

Over 50% of marriages fail in today's world. I believe the culture has changed drastically over the past 50 years along with technology and it has made relationships a lot harder. There is not a lot of privacy anymore in the world and that has a lot to do with it as well. People are just getting caught more now then they did before the internet and social media. Marriage is not supposed to be easy and if you don't work at it and society says its ok then people just give up on the relationship and get divorced.

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Of course there will be alot of divorces and the reason is going to be obvious that it is because marriage these days is more of show off business whereby some people just want to get married to please the society

We should also note that many people tend to focus on the wedding ceremony and forget that the marriage itself is what is most important,these days we see alot of people focusing on how to do an elaborate wedding but they forget that the major focus should be on the marriage itself because wedding ceremony is just fora day while marriage is something that is for a lifetime and that ought to be the point of discussion

There are plenty divorces in marriages these
Days because of different various reasons
Some people got married for the wrong reasons
Or should i say they got married just to please
Some certain people in the society

Marriage is not a joking matter and it should
Be taken with all seriousness but we have in
Our society these days is that many people
Get married these days are just simply doing
It just to fulfil their fantasy of wearing the dark
Suit or wearing the white gown and walk to the
Altar,they are not getting married because of love

Some people hardly understand each other
Before getting married,they just want to get
Married simply because of only good sex and food,they think marriage is only about food and sex and that is why when such people get married they get tired of the marriage because they got tired of the sex and food

As these days there are many cases of love marriage and family is not agree with this days so due to the feelings of love couple not able to leave eacb other and they run away far from each other and the case of divorce occur.

If we go at major cities there are lots of couple who are not married doing many 18+ things which are very bad for them at such a less age so there are chances of divorcd after marriage.

Not getting compromised and running after egos is making a wall between couple.
Disputes are quite general in a family, but during dispute if one stand on peace and agree their mistake then problem is solved. The anger one would definitely regret for his anger sooner or later.
When there is yelling and anger from both sides no one gonna stop them. Lack of commitment leads to such kind of thing.
Additional to that addiction to something like alcohol would also bring in disputes !

Recently i was watching a television programme
And on the programme they were discussing
About the current increaed rate of divorce these
Days and they were asking what could be the cause and the first answer that came to my mind was that it is because people are now less patient

Marriages are full of ups and downs and are
Full of its various challenges but i believe that when the couple are patients and more tolerant then they can both fight and win over those challenges and even have the ability to get rhe happiness which they both desire in the marriage

Many couple these days are not tolerant of each other,many of them make marriage look like a war-zone where they are both fighting for the role of a commandant in the marriage and always want their own voice to be heard louder than the other and during this course they begin to feel resentment towards each other and the friendship they had before they got married now begins to vanish into thin air

There was a book published in America to stop these and had a great effect on this cause. Book is worth reading for both males and females, name of the book is "Men Are From Mars,,,, Women Are From Venus".

Separation is leaving your accomplice because of contrariness with them.

For what reason do we abandon them?

For what reason do we leave anyone or anything?

Lets think about your case. I am expecting you are accomplished and work for a firm. You connected for this activity a few times back and got chose in the organization.

Everything goes fine amid the underlying stage. In the event that your advantage matches with your activity profile you've hit it right.

In any case, assume you were keen on something and your activity profile needs you to accomplish something different. Will you be keen on the organization. Will the organization benefit from your condition. A major NO!

This is the situation that has clashing enthusiasm of yours. There might be horde issues of individuals which is the reason for contrariness amongst you and your association.

This may not be an ideal similarity between two individuals but rather I get it gives you the substance of what I am endeavoring to clarify.

You require another organization and the organization needs another representative. The ideal match of intrigue will empower you and the organization for longer relationship.

This doesn't implies that except if you find what you need, you continue wedding and separating from your life partner. One favorable position of marriage over organization relationship is that you can date a subject of intrigue. That is an alternate case that even subsequent to dating the marriage may not work and the couple wind up separating.

Once in a while people change. Their needs change. Their interests change.

They separate. They wed. Once more. At that point separate. Again.Then marry...till they locate the ideal mate.

Divorces is common in marriage right from the onset but its just that it is now at an increased rate

these days,the rate at which divorce is occuring in
many marriages is alarming and should urgently

be checked because so many broken homes is not good for the society at large,what i think

led to more divorces is because people now see being a single mother or a single father as the

latest trend which they should emulate and that is why even some of them want to follow the

trend but they had to get married because of the society and that is why such people won’t hesitate

to divorce quickly if they are bored in the marriage or if there any little crisis in the marriage

It could be for reasons of age, financial, or fear of being seized by others, some people tend to rush when deciding to get married. In fact, many are admitting that actually from the beginning they already feel that there is a problem between them and their partner. But they assume that it will be completed later after marriage.

Well there may be many reasons for increased number of divorces these days. Some of the reasons which I can understand are the following:
Materialistic: We have become more materialistic now a days as compared to past.
Compromising: couples are less compromising these days
Ego: we are having more ego issues as compared to our parents
Demanding: our demands now a days are very high.
Flexibility: we have less flexibility in our relations.