Authors get paid when people like you upvote their post.
If you enjoyed what you read here, create your account today and start earning FREE STEEM!
Sort Order:  

There is no rule in the married rule book where there is a limit on the number of times couples should have sex daily, weekly or monthly.

The number of times couples should have sex is totally dependent on the couples. As every individual is uniquely different so are their sexual prowess and their libido.

For instance, a couple that enjoys sex and are nymphomaniacs can have sex as much as three times a day or more or three times a week depending on their sexual urge but a couple that just sees sex as a means to an end of recereation can have sex only once in a while.

It os therefore expedient to note that the number of times couple should have sex is totally agreed upon by the couples themselves.

However, experts have vome up wiith a framework that ideally a couple should have sex tiwce or thrice weekly as it boosts mood, reduces tension etc

I don't think there is a set limit to how often a married couple should have sex. Sometime we tend to think that sex should happen more once married but it is not always so. A couple is made up of two individuals with varying sex drive. One may have a high libido and the other a low one or both may have high or low libido. Thus affects how often sex is demanded and carried out by one or both partners. Again, some couples have very busy schedule and so hardly find time for sex as they are usually tired at the close of day,

The answer to this question depends on the couple and their definition of what is normal to them. They can have sex couple of times a week or even just once a week so long they are happy with that routine. The quantity of sex sometimes is determined by the quality of sex. If the quality is low then the quantity will also be low. In this case there is an underlying problem and such both should communicate and try to find ways of boosting their sexual life. Seeing a sex therapists can also help such couples.

All in all there is really no normal when it comes to the number of sex couples should have. It's a matter of whatever rocks your boat. Some couples keep a sex timetable. If that works for you, you can try it out. If you are wondering how many times the other couples are having sex then perhaps your sex life has issues that needs to be fixed and yes it can be fixed.

Are you married ? 

There is no rule mentioned anywhere, which guides how often you do sex, LOL. It all depends on the mutual understanding between both partners, and the physical desire also affect it to a great extent. 

For example, one of the partner may be active , where as the other may not have the same level of desire. So in that case, both has to honor each other and decide. I have seen some relationships, where one of the partner does not have much interest in sex, because of some other problems / diseases, and the other partner adjusting with the situation. 

Marriage is a great relation, where understanding and mutual respect has equal importance as sex. Especially, as your family grows, there will be many responsibilities , that may affect your sexual life. So a fine balance has to be derived that best works with each family. 

Feel free to have it as many times as you and your partner agree and can afford to do , LOL. Its all yours 😝

I read the questions above and I dunno do they give you the answer that you were looking for . It’s all very pc. I take it your the more active of the two otherwise the question wouldn’t be asked. But no one is putting a figure on it but there’s nothing worse than being backed up so to speak so I’d say a good seeing to every once a week is the least. Every night is too much to be asking . Twice or three times is probably above average for most couples. If you are not happy , have a chat otherwise you may end up roaming at worst and Pornhub at best! Nothing wrong with a bit of Pornhub either