I am asking this on behalf of a friend and answers here would really mean a lot
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first of all im very sorry for such trauma you went through after the rape. i will like to let you know that your case isnt the first and i feel so disheartened each time i hear about the case of rape.it has become a societal menace that some unreasonable people has imbibe and its really affecting our young ladies around the globe. if your fiance is aware of your virginity there is no point hiding under one finger because its is safe to change plan while at sea that to set sail and sink at sea.if you refuse to tell him now,he will eventually know as time goes on and it will be too late to convince him that you were raped. you need to come out plane at the right time and you must make sure you give him reasons to believe truly that you were raped. more importantly, you dont need to hide this from your parent.if there is any of them you are close to,let them know what youve been through for action to be taken against the rapist if he/they can be located.if this action is taken, it will be a plus for you to state the matter to your fiance and the fact that your parent knows about it will make him believe you wholeheartedly if he truly loves and trust you. please dont forget to visit the hospital to flush yourself and do some test to stay free from whatever they might have passed through the unprotected sex. i believe if you can do all this, your fiance will find reason to believe you and stay by your side.
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I'm so sorry this happened to you but I believe you should your fiance. He has a right to know.
Also, please understand the rape was absolutely not your fault. If your fiance truly loves you, he'll understand this also and help you get through the psychological trauma you may be experiencing.
Actually, you both should be closer now to help each other overcome this horrible experience. Once again, I'm sorry this happened to you.
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To be candid i bet to differ, relationship thread on love and affection you both have for yourself which is also strenghthen by copulatuon,sex and whatever.
There is every probability that if the guy knows about it he will check out of the relationship, so why play with probable when you can stick with possible, I am of the opinion that you keep it to yourself and wipe your tear, its not the end of the world dear.
And for anyone who may want to come for my head, let's come to think of it because I want to put myself in his shoes, I will never forget that and even if I chose to let go, I will definitely remember while having sex with her.
No one without skeleton in their body, just so well to love him more and appreciate him better, telling him this will only worsen the case no matter what. Even if the guy chose to be a good guy, future can't be guaranteed.
People will forgive us if we make a wrong decision but posterity will never forget us if we didn't make a decision atall..
Thanks you
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