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I love this answer! Yes, I agree. Validation can be such a blessing. It gives you a way of directing yourself by way of people you like and trust. It can also work the other way, if you get validation from somebody you don't trust or respect, then it's safe to say you may choose differently.

As long as you are your own master and feel these choices are your own, you can feel confident about them and grow in confidence.

I bet you're an amazing singer, Have you used DTube or DSound to showcase your voice?

Thanks @juliamulcahy..
I guess i will do that then you be the one to validate it for yourself hahahah

Let me know when’s you have something up on either dtube or dsound and I’ll defo take the time to share my validatiion of your singing voice. 😀

I think i do have something on dsound 😎😎

Do you have links so I can check it out? 😎

Ok..
Hahahahha

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Hey! No cheating. This is my 'validation' post. You've just become entwined in it. Jewelia ain't sharing her post.

- I so wish you could do markup here. I was about to put sticks tongue out, and imagines she has ginger hair in pigtails but obviously, you can't. So that's kinda annoying.

Anyways, "frankly my dear, I don't give a damn." Said Rhett Butler to Scarlett in one of the best films ever and boy didn't she feel that lack of validation!

Glad it turned her back right round to being somewhere decent. The Little Voice is happy she's read your 'validation' post. I read @thehive's too, or at least his connection with mine. I bet he'll write more later. He might just do it to validate this week's word.

It's fun though, so if you choose to play full out and write more. Who am I to judge?

TTFN

The Little Voice

I won't use this as my validation posts, I think purely because it is too fragmented , I am sure I can come up with something even more confuckulated :) Great idea though I think you will have a lot more insight and maybe if you don't you will have found validation for what you already knew.

Confuckulated - can that be next week's word. I kinda like it.

You can do markdown, they just don't parse it maybe, I am actually replying from the steem post they use as a database to store all the responses :) Origin URL I do wonder Surely they parse html 😜😜😜😜 or UTF8 characters which is natively supported by the browser.

I don't use markdown

The Steem version of markdown is a waste of time
I would much rather just learn a few html tags and know their interfaces can't possibly screw that up also.

You're such a show off! I want to learn from your crazy style of teaching. :)

If you ever wonder what someone did to make something look a certain way on steem then you can change the url to go to steemd.com, you can look at steemworld for example to get the actual url or copy the one gina gives you. Just replace steemit.com with steemd.com and it will show you the raw code for things My comments aboves raw data The emoji I just use an emoji chrome extention and like I say the browser supports it. It is not site specific :)

That's handy. Thanks @penderis, I appreciate the knowledge you possess and are sharing. It's like you've just given me another key to somewhere else in this fascinating steemiverse.

Interesting. Do you really feel it was forced onto you? It is hard to know whether or not your boss's rules were too much. You state in universals, that she ruled "Everything from how you did your work to how you behaved" but without context it is hard to judge whether this was right or wrong.

I guess we all get to decide whether we want a particular job or not. We get to decide to walk away if we find ourselves in an experience not of our liking. In that you had choice. If I were you, I'd own that choice and feel good about it.

I wonder, are you now in a job more of your liking? I hope so.

Thanks for contributing and responding to the question. I will be writing a post later for The Drop in the Ocean show over on the Buddy Up server in Discord. It starts at 8 pm UTC and this question and all the responses will be discussed. I am therefore very grateful to you for sharing your experience with me.

The Little Voice

Thanks for the reply. I seldom get replies for the answer I write. Really appreciate it. I wanted to quit early on but I decided to just see if it was me who had the problem of not being able to stick or it was the boss. It was tough having this type of torture. At 3am the boss would sometimes whatapps me with unpleasant stuff.

Now I am enjoying my life with freedom included. I am more of a freelancer and have survived for about a year now.

Wow! That sure gives a greater degree of context. Your ex boss was definitely overstepping the boundaries of a working relationship.

Glad you got out and you are finding your way in freelancing. Brave move!

Here's to feeling good @karamyog! I love your spin on this particular question.

I have just finished my post which featured this question. I'm going to leave the link in one of the above answers area.

@johntagbo asked for the link, so if you want to read it, you'll know where to find it.

thanks for the appreciation, and glad you thought to reply, on a post about seeking external validation :) i will check the post, thanks for mentioning.

Yes. I cried too.

This is a really good point. We do need other people to validate us. Or volleyballs. Or walls - as in 'Shirley Valentine', it's why isolation is a higher level of punishment in prisons.

We need each other.

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You are right to have mentioned the fact that the date was fixed by emperor Constantine. In fact the circumstances described in the bible show that the day of his birth could not have been in winter.

For example shepherds tending to their sheep in the field or the census that was fixed during that time.

But the most important point is that we were never instructed to celebrate Christs birth. Christmas is an entirely pagan celebration that has nothing to do with Christ. It is definitely NOT worthy of celebration.

This is not on my blog, but on my feed.

You can't remove a resteemed post on your feed. Resteem is just like "share" in other social platforms. You can't unshare what has been shared, and this is even a blockchain where you can't delete anything that you've shared or posted. So there's no way to remove resteem from your feed

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Thanks! But the friend desire a weight gain, not reduction!! I understand; most often it is excess weight being the problem.

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Thanks.

I disagree with your opinion about not tagging @dstors and I think it is just fine to tag people and companies that we mention in posts.

@dlike might not be as valuable of a concept as dCommerce but it still has some value.

EXAMPLE: @mannacurrency uses Dlike and I enjoy reading the things they share.

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Nice answer Rok. I agree lol.

Yes! He was a gifted and insightful teacher. Saddened he transited too soon!

The is awesome. We have a great community because of people like you.

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Thanks for this down to earth submit. Always a delight reading you!!

Thanks for this down to earth submit. Always a delight reading you!!

Vehemently disagree !!

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You can check your results on https://steemworld.org/@yourname. You can check how many upvotes did you give, on how many accounts, even self upvotes are monitored, all this for the last 7 days. it's a great tool.

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I strive not to be a man of success, but rather to be a man of value.

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