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CAn sex solve problems?

I mean, when people feel their minds deadlocked and there is no way out in their lives, then they will switch to alcoholic beverages or sexual relations. Can sex solve their problems?

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Well it depends on the problems you mean, for example, sex can ruduce mental and emotional stress, it produces Oxytocin that is quite beneficial in reducing the blood pressure, boosting the immune system and keeping the mind sharp and alert.

However when there is marital or work problem, people switch to things like alcohol and sex like you suggested

And this will definitely take the mind off these problem for a while, HOWBEIT it doesn't get the problem solved.

Problems are always there unless we face them and look for plausible solutions that can be lasting, using sex when there is a problem, is like going around a wall for the mean time but the lasting solution will be going through it which means seeking a more better solution for a problem.

Sex doesn't solve problems it's only a recipe that take your mind off the problem for just only a while.

Well, yes it can. Sex is a means of communication. And just like with other forms of communication, it needs to be done in respect. When this mutual respect is there, during sex, you can open up to one another, and be at your most vulnerable. This will facilitate communication on a verbal level too later on, which will enable a more problem solving setting.

Sex can also be a stress reliever, and in that way it can also solve prolems.

And besides all that, sex also releases specific hormones, which makes people open up and attach more to one another, which can also be the basis for some problem solving.

And as an extreme example, sex can be used in many 'not so nice' ways to fix problems of totally different types, because sex is something that is always in demand.

So it depends on the type of problems. It will not fix your broken leg, or cure the flu you're suffering from, but it can fix your relational problems, or even get your flat tyre replaced.