Why are most men afraid of commitment?
Every day there are more men who prefer to have a relationship without ties, without teaching and prefer to avoid committing to a person, there are even those who fear marriage. I would like to know your opinion about this.
For me it is another story, I went tru too much to feel comfortable with someone.
But here is the reason that I keep hearing why men are afraid of commitment.
Trust: One of them is the fact that more and more women misuse their power, cheating, lying, manipulating. And time and time, when a men speaks up about it, he gets laugh at and the women says that it all the men's fault and the average person just believe the women and always questions the men. The man is guilty in the eyes of others until proven innocent, and sometimes not even then. Young men see this when they are growing up from the men around them. So they are afraid to give a women this kind of power by trusting them, so they are quicker to move on, even if they like the women they are with.
Worth: Most women are not worth it nowadays. I mean in value. Since women are more and more encouraged to sleep around, they become unattractive. Why?! If you sleep around, you perception on men just changes, you never had the chance to learn how to build a healthy relationship, and you loose social status. This is what we call baggage, and that is not really attractive, so men are not quick to call that type of women a wife. Unlike popular believe, men or women, if you sleep around a lot, your perception changes where it will be harder to have a healthy relationship. For women the consequences are worse.
Love: A lot of men learn the hard way about how women are wired. Women are always looking for a better partner, even if they are in a relationship. So they are always on the lookout, and when they find a better men, they and the relationship and go to that other men. That is why you might hear, " she is not yours, it is just your turn ". That is because it is a question of time of when she is going to end the relationship. Men know this so they don't care to commit to someone who is planning to leave him from the start. Women don't love men anymore, they are always choosing the best option they can get at the moment. Women don't love men anymore, it is all about fun.
There might be others reasons, but these ones are the most spoken, the most basic. The third one is the most know by young men, they experienced it by that time a lot.
(I waited so long to post this, with the steemit updates I couldn't do anything, hope it was worth it)
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I will focus more from the scientific and biological point of view, again.
Why the fear of compromise? Well, I'll ask you another question, how many animals do you know who have only one partner in their life? So far I think I only know that characteristic in most birds, and a few mammals.
In fact, evolution shows how in reproduction there are strategies that make more suitable to certain animals. These strategies are for both males and females. One of these strategies for males has been to have more pairs to ensure more offspring per breeding; he who gets few couples will reproduce less and will be less successful for having fewer children.
This is the most common strategy within the animal kingdom, especially for most mammals. Now, behaviors are inherited from generation to generation to such an extent that certain behaviors are recorded in our genetic memory.
This behavior exists hundreds or thousands of years before the appearance of man, so it is normal to think that this behavior was also inherited to this and in fact it was. It can easily be seen in those polygamous relationships where you have more than one partner and many parents. But that also depends on some cultures or ways of thinking.
Now the conventional man if he can continue having this primitive behavior based on the strategy of '' more couples implies greater reproductive success '' making him feel insecure when committing to a single partner.
Of course, like everything in nature there are behavioral exceptions and obviously there are many men who do believe in commitment.
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Many people are afraid to do commitment when they are wrong but instead of afraid we can tell our fault words to parents they can surely remove you from your work which you have done.
When we are wrong in the situation and we are in fault so to do truth we always afraid.
Let's have with example if a person met an accident and he had crash the vehicle to bother work and so he is in fault so, not to tell to police he always stay away from doing commitment and so when police came to know the details he always gives wrong words and so he have to remain free from the situation and don't want to interfere in the situation and so he not do commitment towards the police.
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