A friend was driving to work. Suddenly, a drunk was killed on the road and stopped his car, saying that he had hit him, and asked the friend to get off and apologize. In the past, he would go up and punch drunk people twice, but this time he didn't. After thinking about it, he got out of the car and said kindly to the drunk, "I'm sorry, please forgive me." The drunk patted him on the shoulder and said, "Dude, I'm going to say this to you and leave." When he got back to the car, he didn't feel wronged at all. Instead, he had a sense of pleasure to overcome himself.
Secondly, you can strike back reasonably, but the method must be clever.
A poor shoemaker living in America is from Sicily. Every Saturday, he likes listening to opera on the radio. When listening to opera, he likes to open doors and windows and let music fill the surrounding streets. But one Saturday, a gang of villains broke his fantasy.
They shouted all kinds of ugly nicknames at the old man, and there were more difficult to obey. They shouted so loudly that the old man couldn't listen to his opera quietly. For weeks on end, they would harass the elderly on time.
Finally, the old man began to fight back, but the other party continued to laugh at and insult the old man coldly. When they left, the old man was no longer in the mood to listen to his favorite opera.
Later, the old man came up with a good idea. When they arrived on time and continued their shouting and cursing, the old man stepped forward and said to them, "children!" Your voices are really beautiful. Please continue to shout and scream as loudly as possible. If you do this, I will give you 25 cents each. They shouted, reaped 25 cents, and left in surprise.
They came back the following Saturday. The old man told them how much he liked listening to their shouts, but because he was just a poor shoemaker, he couldn't afford such a rare voice, so today everyone can only give 10 cents. "Think of us as what, old things! Fool! " "We will not give you any performance for only 10 dollars!" "Save your money." They talked and walked away at a loss.
Later, the hooligans refused to come back and yell at the old shoemaker because they thought the old man was too stingy. Now, the old shoemaker can finally listen to his opera attentively every Saturday, and his voice is loud and clear, and he doesn't have to worry about being disturbed by those rude and prejudiced children.
Some people will fight back against other people's provocation, while most people will be at a loss. At this time, we can use one of the most helpless but also the most effective methods, that is, patience!
In fact, man is a fish, and society is a tank of water. If we are a tropical fish, we must lower our body temperature instead of expecting the water to warm up. A purposeful person should learn to endure and even endure humiliation while adhering to his inner principles.
In the backward strategy, we need to warn ourselves that we should learn to be patient, stick to it and grasp the final victory. A famous person once said, "No matter how you plan, people who can really succeed will know that there is a stage and period in which there is no way to pass except patience.
But the most dangerous thing is that during this period, we are all easily discouraged. Therefore, the so-called patience is not to wait passively, waiting for the pie to fall from the sky, but to endure the pain of waiting and continue to work hard. This brings us back to our theme--taking the backward as the forward.
Patience can become a strategy of life and even an art. Patience, in fact, is to let time and facts prove themselves, so as to get rid of unprincipled entanglement or unnecessary quarrel between each other.
Patience has thus become a synonym for persistence. Persistence and patience may be inseparable. If we have both, we may have a fortune in our life.