Know the Styles to Improve your Relationship with Family, Friends....

Have you ever wondered why you got divorced with your life partner despite you married him/her with love and affection????

Why your children can’t take your suggestions when you are telling them for their own good/benefit???

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Have you ponder to think why you breakup with your girlfriend or boyfriend despite you have sweet and memorable moments????

Have you ever ponder why you are unable to cope with your boss in office???

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And there are lots and lots of issues in your real life and for all the above issues only thing you need to know is Learning Style. As you all know human have a multitude of senses. Sight (vision), hearing (audition), taste (gustation), smell (olfaction), and touch (somatosensation) are the five traditionally recognized senses to interpret the things and situations around us.

In this article i would like to highlight very important senses to identify the particular pattern style of a person:

Visual (Sight)
Auditory (Hearing)
Kinesthetic (Touch)
Each and every human being have any one of the above mentioned pattern style in major and rest of the senses in minor. If you could identify his/her major pattern then your life will be easier and you will have wonderful relationship with him/her.

What Is the VAK Learning Styles Model? *
The VAK Learning Styles Model was developed by psychologists in the 1920s to classify the most common ways that people learn. According to the model, most of us prefer to learn in one of three ways: visual, auditory or kinesthetic (although, in practice, we generally "mix and match" these three styles).
● Visual: a visually-dominant learner absorbs and retains information better when it is presented in, for example, pictures, diagrams and charts.
● Auditory: an auditory-dominant learner prefers listening to what is being presented. He or she responds best to voices, for example, in a lecture or group discussion. Hearing his own voice repeating something back to a tutor or trainer is also helpful.
● Kinesthetic: a kinesthetic-dominant learner prefers a physical experience. She likes a "hands-on" approach and responds well to being able to touch or feel an object or learning prop.

Source: https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/vak-learning-styles.htm

For example: I will give one real time scenario where an Auditory husband (Pattern Style: Auditory) comes home from hectic work schedule and once he reaches home the wife is watching TV with full sound and the 2 kids shouting at each other while doing their homework. In this situation the husband will get really piss off as he is Auditory person and he needs some peace of mind state when he is in bad mood or due to hectic work pressure.

The above mentioned is one scenario and there are many scenarios took place in real life where using these pattern styles can be helpful. These are the things we neglect to notice and small things will become big issues due to unidentified pattern recognition of his/her whether it is family, friend or in career life.

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How to Identify the Learning Style? #
Now comes the real task to identify the learning style of particular person. As there is a saying face is the index of mind [regarding this i am going to talk in next article], here to identify the Learning Style eyes are the index points.

These techniques are also used in real life with Criminals to find out the real facts from the victims/criminals to verify the crime scene & situation.
VISUAL

While talking, If he/she see Top Left side of his head then he is remembering the things and if he/she see towards Top Right side of his head then he is creating something which doesn’t exist. This person majority pattern is visual out of VAK.

AUDITORY

While talking, If the person moves his/her eyeballs towards his/her left ears then he/she is auditory person and remember the facts.
If the person moves his/her eyeballs towards his/her right ears then he/she is auditory person and creating the story instead of telling facts.
KINESTHETIC

While talking, if the person look towards down then he/she is Kinesthetic person who feel a lot and you can identify his emotions based on his eyeball movements.
If he/she looks towards left then he /she is remembering the things.
If he/she looks towards right then he/she is creating new situation than actual fact.

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If you really want to know your learning style, please visit this link [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScjVdOHwXprMUd8gNB6VSxwTpi_OYvP9HNd9Bp9suYwaam8Mg/viewform?c=0&w=1]
Your Style Matters Most in Your Life and answer few easy multiple choice questions to know your personal style.
If you want your partner or friend or kid to know his/her style then ask them to do the same to know their style.
Note: There is no right or wrong answers/options - Select the option that best suites you. Answer genuinely to get accurate report.

If you know one another styles then there won’t be any problems in any type of relationship whether it is in workplace or home with friends or family.