When you have multiple experiences especially negative that occur for a while, over and over again then we have a negative mental filter that spans those particular relations.
We can have negative filters to
Experiencing in general
This is a negative out look and is collapsing the field which is not partial to the truth
The truth is that all is the same
So as we continually have the experience of having negativity then it is more that we are constantly experiencing our self in a state of resistance and the moment we allow ourselves to fall into that flow of enjoyment that we can allow the stress to remove itself!
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