The importance of understanding that we are unique and that what works for some may not work for others. This applies to recommendations, advice, hobbies, routines, enjoyment, relationship styles, etc.
While it is true that there are things that are wrong for any person, the idea is always to evaluate and not compare ourselves, the comparison cancels us out as unique people and our times and goals are not the same for everyone.
Evaluate today when you want something; what are the main motivations, when did you discover that this is what you wanted and why? It is okay for other people to motivate us but without ceasing to be ourselves.
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