Sounds like my ex. She married a drunk piece of shit who bullied my daughters and terrorized her. at this point, mind you it's 9 years in, she says they are separated but she hasn't filed for divorce and regularly lets him visit for booty time even though he is still under a no contact order stemming from his probation after serving 2 years in prison for an attack that put my ex in the hospital for a week. That, of course,was the second time he served time for putting her in the hospital. luckily my daughters are grown now, they visit their mother when he's not around. I'm tempted to say let her dig her own grave but she is a really good friend of mine for all the problems between us, it would hurt a lot if she let the bastard kill her somehow