Engagements are not bondages

in nigeria •  7 years ago 

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Many young people this days believe that once they are engaged
They are automatically under a special kind of bondage

That's not true
And its not right either

Even when you are engaged
You still have a freedom of choice
You can still choose what you want
You can still buy what you want
You mostn't deprive yourself from your happiness
You are not in a cell
You can still speak out
Still laugh
Still be yourself

You don't have to change your lifestyle to please someone
If your spouse doesnt like what you like (if its moral)
My dear
Try to make he or she understand

Some people are so funny that they can do just anything to please someone else not minding if its against their moral legacies

He says he doesnt like your big eyes
Do u then remove it?!
She said she doesnt like your smile
What do you do?!
Do you try to change the way you smile?!

Just because there is a metal round your finger
You feel you are indebted
You are totally not
Dont let anyone destroy you self esteem
Stand up straight and lift your head up high
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