I don't know how I can over emphasis keeping your private life private even to the closest ones around you.
I know how much pressure it is to keep issues you are excited about or worried about to yourself,the need to unburden and speak to someone is overwhelming and you think it would make you feel good that even when they don't ask,you go to them and spill.
Keeping your personal life private isn’t such an easy task. It’s flattering that people genuinely care what we’re doing with our days – where we’re living, what we’re doing for work, who we’re sharing our lives with, when we’re going to make our next career or relationship moves, why we’re doing what we’re doing, and how we’re going to achieve all of our life’s goals. It’s also frustrating when we’re not quite where we want to be yet, know we’re not, and then have to talk to people about why we’re not where we want to be and then listen to their suggestions, as if we haven’t already thought of those ideas ourselves. We add fuel to these fires ourselves by the information we share and then have to face the repercussions.
Know your Limit!
Determine the things about your life that you’re willing to share with others and the things that you don’t feel comfortable with. As long as you set the foundation, you won’t feel tricked into accidentally giving up more information about yourself than you originally planned to a friend, family member, colleague, or anyone else you come into contact with. You decide the topics you’re comfortable speaking about and can carefully choose the words that come out of your mouth. Don’t let anyone else take your power away from you. You control the message or information about yourself that you want to let the rest of the world (as tiny as yours may be) know.
Save some secrets for yourself!
That’s right. You don’t need to tell everyone every little thing that you do. As long as the information you’re holding in won’t do harm to yourself by keeping it in or to others by not revealing it, why not have something that’s your own? It feels nice to know things that other people don’t, right? Yeah, yeah it does. Shut Your Mouth!!!
I don't know how I can over emphasis keeping your private life private even to the closest ones around you.
I know how much pressure it is to keep issues you are excited about or worried about to yourself,the need to unburden and speak to someone is overwhelming and you think it would make you feel good that even when they don't ask,you go to them and spill.
Keeping your personal life private isn’t such an easy task. It’s flattering that people genuinely care what we’re doing with our days – where we’re living, what we’re doing for work, who we’re sharing our lives with, when we’re going to make our next career or relationship moves, why we’re doing what we’re doing, and how we’re going to achieve all of our life’s goals. It’s also frustrating when we’re not quite where we want to be yet, know we’re not, and then have to talk to people about why we’re not where we want to be and then listen to their suggestions, as if we haven’t already thought of those ideas ourselves. We add fuel to these fires ourselves by the information we share and then have to face the repercussions.
Know your Limit!
Determine the things about your life that you’re willing to share with others and the things that you don’t feel comfortable with. As long as you set the foundation, you won’t feel tricked into accidentally giving up more information about yourself than you originally planned to a friend, family member, colleague, or anyone else you come into contact with. You decide the topics you’re comfortable speaking about and can carefully choose the words that come out of your mouth. Don’t let anyone else take your power away from you. You control the message or information about yourself that you want to let the rest of the world (as tiny as yours may be) know.
Save some secrets for yourself!
That’s right. You don’t need to tell everyone every little thing that you do. As long as the information you’re holding in won’t do harm to yourself by keeping it in or to others by not revealing it, why not have something that’s your own? It feels nice to know things that other people don’t, right? Yeah, yeah it does.