BE WISE ENOUGH TO KNOW YOUR STAND IN A RELATIONSHIP{MEN}

in nigeria •  7 years ago 

When a man is really and deeply in love, he goes out of his ways to do things unusual even though it can cost him his fortune.

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Well for me I don't blame them at all because I might do the same but over doing it is where the problem lies, its just an act of stupidity. As a man, you suppose to know what's best for you, the right approach to take in other to handle certain situations, you suppose to have the ability to think twice and make the right decisions when needed.

In all these things, know when to be romantic enough, don't be too loose to your partner. Anything done by you both should be handled in a mutual manner. You should bear it in mind that not because you did something in the name of love makes it the right thing to do. I will elaborate some things thatis not so necessary to do in other to please your girl friend.

STEALING FOR HER
Sometimes I wonder the kind of love that will push a man to steal all in the name to please her. Well you know where it will end you, because maybe before you are out, she might move on with another man. Don't you ever let anything push you to steal for a lady all in the name of love even sometimes she might found out and won't be happy with you for the act.

BUYING A HOUSE
Now can you vividly buy a house for a woman when you don't have one, isn't that foolishness. Common sense will tell you, you ought to buy one at least before thinking of a Lady. In fact if she loves you she should be able to build a home together with you. So many men have been a victim up till now and don't plan to be one.

TAKEN RESPONSIBILITY OF HER EDUCATION
Seriously its not wrong to support someone in there period of academics, but taking soley responsible for everything concerning her education including feeding and accomotation, so its a risky game. We humans can change anytime so sometimes I don't blame them. The issue is that most Men thinks doing such act will make the girl get indebted with them and later get married to them but the kind of disappointed they usually get leads them to their doom.
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REJECT YOUR FAMILY BECAUSE OF HER
Thus will even be the last thing you will do, rejecting you family simply because your woman doesn't like them.
Family is you, and you are your Family, its suppose to be everything to you. So its so wrong to act such.

FIGHTING FOR A WOMAN
Unless for self defense, don't you ever try to fight for a woman all in the name of love. The implication is that you might wound the person, kill and end up in prison or you got beaten with so many bruises and end up in the hospital. Let me ask you, who is loosing?...

CHANGE YOUR APPEARANCE
You suppose to be with people who love you the way you are. So many men God off there way to build muscles excessively all in the name that 'my woman loves men with huge muscles'. Always stay with people that takes you just the way you are.

BEING TOO SUBMISSIVE
I must tell you that women likes men that are bold, men that always stand on there words...though always pretending to you and acts as if you are sweet and wonderful. But they take you as there pet dog. Don't ever allow it, sometimes stand on your words and don't succumb always to her interests all because of love.

KILL FOR HER
Don't you ever think of it, because if you do, you will end up running for your life or end up in jail. Then how will you feel if after killing someone no matter the case, another man will come and marry her. Yes!, its possible.

Anyways I will stop here for now, never try to do anything to please a woman unnecessary all in the name of love. Always be careful with the people you stay with

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It's sounds like you've been really hurt by a woman! Personally I think doing anything that is immoral like killing for her is just rediculous.

Yes i have scheino
I wrote this article out of experience tho

This is true because some men truly are afraid of their testosterone and then would not show their masculinity and this is really bad and damaging because even women wants to be with a man who is confident enough to say no to some of their questions.

Abosolutely right @scopecircle