Separated from the guy because of money

I met a guy for a year, everything went to marry, but on the last days of our relationship, we stopped understanding each other. And more seriously we quarreled when I took a small amount of money for 3 days from him, and for the first two days he reminded me all the same when I will return the debt.

I thought of myself, maybe he needs money, and decided to lay his gold, but when I found out how I gave him my debt, he asked me to return the earrings. I refused, because I did not want to be in his position, so he called my mother and told her that my business is losing money, that I get into debt. This greatly upset me, then we had a conflict back, and with anger and mistrust towards him, I offered to part. He came to my house, showed rings for the engagement and told my parents that we parted because of my not trust. He showed the ring and left, and after a couple of minutes the message comes: "return the debt right now." I offered to return it the next day, because I did not have this money with me, everything was at work. He said that he does not want to see me tomorrow, he told me to find it today. It was 11 o'clock in the morning! I borrowed from neighbors, and gave him this money.

Since then, a month has passed, he calls me and asks me to check for hepatitis B, since he was diagnosed with a suspicion of this virus, I checked the results were good, and then a conversation started about renewing our relationship. But I decided to tell him why I made this decision, and what worries me. He answered all my questions, that all his actions were a sign of respect for my family, and he also asked to ask my mother for forgiveness, for parting, but I refused, I can not step over it in myself. At the moment I'm completely confused and do not know what to do.