What made you stay away from someone?

I really liked this girl, she was funny, charismatic and helpful.

Until one day, I met a friend of hers and she was really pleased to meet her. Right after the other friend left, she said “look at her, if she gets a boyfriend before me, I'll kill myself.”

I found this a rather odd thing to say but I shrugged it off, but it didn’t stop there.

Time and time again… she would smile in people's faces and what she would say behind their backs was awful.

This had me feeling really sympathetic for people that called her a “friend”. It was also a wake up call like damn, what could she be saying behind my back.

We still talk but not much especially after I confronted her to tell her that what she was doing wasn't cool. I'm in a place in my life where I’ve lost interest in her and honestly my respect for her too.

Don't backbite your friends it’s not cool people, not cool at all.