HOW DO YOU TALK THE PARTNER TO BE TAKEN ANAL SEX?

In addition, according to many women, anal sex is not aesthetically pleasing, they believe that this place is intended for other purposes and misused to satisfy it.

There were times, the code of anal sex was equated with a serious crime, and in some countries the law still forbids doing this, even deaths of spouses caught in anal sex are known.

But the question arises: how to persuade his partner to engage in anal sex? It is necessary to persuade her just as you would persuade a virgin, if she could not decide on ordinary vaginal sex. Of course, the woman is afraid of the unknown. Keep in mind that anal sex is different from vaginal sex, which means that you will need to give your partner more affection and show patience. You can use both natural lubricants (saliva or secret of the vagina), and special means.

Do not rush, first try to penetrate into her anal opening with a little finger, making circular movements. In parallel, caress the woman's tongue or the second hand. Remember that only trust can save fear, and trust exists only between people who show attentiveness towards each other and experience mutual love.

A good option for preparing for anal sex will be anilingus. Thanks to caresses with the help of the tongue, the partner's sphincters relax, and she will get an unforgettable pleasure from anal-oral caresses. It is advisable, if for this the woman lies on her back, spread her legs to the sides, laying a pillow under the buttocks. After some time, in circular smooth movements, open the anal of the partner a little, about the width of the thumb. If at the same time the sphincter tension is felt, it is better to postpone the penetration for a short time and continue caresses.

It is worth noting that women pay great attention to the aesthetic side of the situation. If, after anal sex, the penis of the partner is soiled, the girl will for ever lose the desire for such experiments. To avoid this, it is advisable to make an enema before the sexual act, and also to use a condom, but in this case a baby cream or other lubricants will be needed.

Try different postures of anal sex, to determine which you are with the partner is more than others. Some people choose the pose of the rider, others prefer the embryo pose, someone likes to do this, lying on his stomach, and someone stopped on the knee-elbow position. There may be a lot of options, so experiment and determine. It is very important that the man does not hurry, does not make too sharp and active movements. To anal sex brought more pleasure, you need to focus your attention not on active moments, namely on pauses.

In order not to make a partner hurt, it is not recommended to keep her thighs at the time of penetration, as this can provoke a painful strong push of the penis over the entire length. It is the woman who must determine to what depth it is possible to penetrate into it. It is possible that the first time it will allow you to penetrate only a couple of centimeters, and the next time - already half the length of the penis.

Special exercises that would allow a woman to prepare for anal sex, unfortunately, no. Of course, you can buy extender in the sex shop and special sex toys, but their use is not to everyone's liking. Therefore, as the main stimulant can be considered just the male penis, tenderness of the partner and his patience. To overcome the resistance, it is necessary to enter the penis at a shallow depth, then remove it and, after some time, again to repeat it.

Negative aspects of anal sex:

• remnants of stool, which can reduce all pleasure to "no";
• prejudices that become an obstacle to mutual pleasure, both for men and women;
• if a member, smeared in stool, will be inserted into the vagina, this can lead to inflammation.

In any case, a condom and enema are the best solution to the problem of a stained penis.

Positive aspects of anal sex:

• gives new sensations and is something previously unexplored;
• makes sexual life more diverse;
• replaces vaginal sex, when it is impossible or contraindicated: the preservation of virginity, menstruation, protection from unwanted pregnancy.

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