So.. WHY DO GUYS PAY FOR SEX?

When I first started out escorting I thought I could pin it down to two basic categories. I was in London, the big cityyy.. bit different up north now. Anyway, it was either men that can afford it yet have no issues having sex with people pro gratis, they're just busy working, travelling etc. And then there's the people that can afford it.

Because escorts aren't cheap. I won't lie to you – every time I do an escort meet, just after I've left their house or hotel or whatever; I do a little cash rub on my face (not literally every time, I only do it every now and again). Cos I just made that in an hour, or however long the booking was. Not that my time's not worth it. I know I'm an ace escort, and I'm putting my lovely self up for sale, so there should be a decent price on that.

Camming has always fascinated me (since I started doing it). Escort meets still do to an extent, and now I do it less often I'm always so interested in why people do it, if they're willing to tell me.

I must admit, when I started camming, I didn't get the appeal of what I was putting out there. Like, there is SO MUCH FREE PORN out there, it baffled me that someone would pay for it. I've come to realise what it is. Who doesn't like the personal touch? Saying your name, doing what you ask for, laughing at your jokes etc.. I probably spend more on baccy than most these guys do on cam girls in a week. But also, it's … me? My bread and butter for the last year has been the same people coming back regularly. Whether I'm telling them how to jerk off or pouring custard on me tits or calling them Sir. Not to mention the people that spend a bloody fortune (in my eyes anyway, cos I'll always be skint) on just talking. About owt. The weather, footie, music. It's genuinely nice to meet so many different people in such a weird setting. Everyone's so honest.

A lot of people ask how I ended up in the sexwork industry. If you guys could be at least bothered to scroll down to my early Steemit posts I do cover it but.. the quick answer is, yeah.. I needed money. I still need money, and it's not always easy. In fact, it's never easy.. but it can be so much fun. Occasionally.

One person I met said his friend was asking for advice on escorting? I just directed them to a useful website I used when I started out and still refer to (SAAFE), but the thing is; there's no x-factor. Where I work, there are thousands of girls, all completely different; you just have to be okay and confident with selling yourself; cos trust me, people will buy.

And why do they buy? To bring it back round, I think men pay for sex because they're a little fed up of rubbish predictable porny type people. Or they love porny type people that are doing exactly what they want. I've always championed myself as a down to earth non perfect person with a sense of humour and filthy mind (in less, more advertisable words) that appeals to so much more people than the blow up pre-recorded barbies I compete with... bleurgh.

Even if I stop camming soon (dunnno, the doubts set in now the moneys good again) I still feel super invested in sex work – it's been a huge part of the most interesting section of my life. I kinda wanna make mini docs for Steemit, talking to sex workers from a different stance i.e. not Vice or BBC3... I could honestly see myself being a proper brothel madam in 20 years time...