It's How To Distinguish The Right Orgasm And The Pretenders In Women

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It's How To Distinguish The Right Orgasm And The Pretenders In Women

The characteristics of the original or fake orgasm trait

It's not a secret, women less often orgasm when having sex than men. Although there is no exact figure, a number of studies have proven that sex penetration alone is difficult to bring women to climax. Because rare, many women then pretend to orgasm in front of their partner. As a man, you may be wondering if your partner is really an orgasm or just faking it. Well, note first the various characteristics of the original orgasme and fake in the following explanation.

 Why is there a fake orgasm?

Usually the main reason women pretend to orgasm is because she failed orgasm from sex. Many women believe that men will be more passionate and confident if he is able to make women climax. To please her partner, some women also choose to fake an orgasm.

In contrast to men who usually orgasm followed by ejaculation, female orgasm is usually not so visible or felt by men. So even if a woman pretends to be an orgasm, her partner may be unaware that it is only deceived.

What happens to a woman's body during a real orgasm
In order for you to tell which orgasm is genuine and fake, you must first know what the real orgasm features are. When performing sexual activity, women will go through several stages of the body's reaction to stimulation.

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Notice the stages below.

Stage arises passion.

The woman's body will begin to respond to the sexual stimuli given to the body. The muscles begin to tighten, heart palpitations, breathing hunts, hardened breast nipples, clitoris tensed, and out the natural lubricant from the vagina.

Stage of anticipation.

At this point women have anticipated or imagined more pleasure. Signs include clitoris more sensitive to touch, leg muscles and hands tighten, breathing more hunted, heartbeat added quickly, and skin become reddish.

Stage climax (orgasm).

After receiving the right stimulus, women will reach the peak of pleasure marked by orgasm. This stage lasts only for a few seconds. The muscles that had been tightened will contract strongly, especially on the feet and hands. Legs and hands usually make movements like gripping something tightly. In addition, the woman seemed out of breath. Vaginal walls and mouth tighten so tightly, as if to "bite" the penis. In many women, both eyelids will close when reaching orgasm.

Stage relax.

A few seconds after orgasm, the woman's body will return to relax and weakness. That means he has successfully released his energy and sexual passion. The muscles around the tense vagina slowly relax. Heart rate and respiration rate gradually slows down to become normal again.

Various features of genuine and fake orgasms
After understanding the original female orgasm's features, you should be able to distinguish the pretense. Usually women who pretend to orgasm will sigh a lot. Yet according to various studies, women's sighs are not an automatic reaction of his body because it is aroused. The sound of the sigh is contrived to make the couple feel "male" in bed. Although there are people who like to sigh on the bed, real orgasm is usually usually minimal sigh or scream.

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The most obvious feature of fake orgasms other than the sound of sighs is muscle contraction. If the muscles in a woman's body do not tighten like a glance, it is likely your partner is just pretending. Note also that the walls and mouth of her vagina do not feel "bite".

In the end, sex is a matter of trust and intimacy. Ask yourself, more importantly, to catch a fake partner orgasm or improve the quality of sex are equally satisfactory? If you are worried that your spouse is not climactic, convey your concerns by asking. For example what body part or touch like what he likes. By knowing your partner's passion, it is guaranteed she will not have to fake an orgasm anymore.

If all this time you are often pretend, try another way to reach climax. For example clitoral stimulation or try breathing techniques. Without conveying what you want, your partner will not know how to bring you to the top of pleasure.

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