Want to know how you optimistic? Then read the following 4 signs optimist and compare them with their lives and behavior.
By the way, the author of these features (and more precisely - behaviors) - Martin Seligman. He is the author of the book "How to learn to optimism." This book we have not read (but plans have :)). And about the behavior of optimists, we have learned from the book by Brian Tracy, "Come out of your comfort zone" (a review of which we will publish on the site next week).
So, what 4 features (behaviors) are characteristic of the optimists:
Firstly, in each situation optimistic looking positive direction. Whatever happens, they try to find this something good or useful. And, it seems, always finding that is not surprising.
Second, from any failure or difficulty optimists try to extract valuable knowledge, considering that there are no difficulties to hinder us, and for that we have to learn. In each issue, in their opinion, the important lesson is concluded, and they are determined to find him and learn to grow intellectually and spiritually.
Third, the optimists are always looking for a solution. Instead allegations of someone's address or the complaints of unfortunate situation they turn to action. They ask themselves: where is the exit? what can be done? what should be the next step?
Fourth, the optimists constantly think and talk about their goals - about what they want and how to achieve it. Future and destination concerned them more than the past and the starting point, they are always looking forward.
By the way, it is not only signs, but a guide to action;). Remember that the world belongs to the optimists!
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