Real pain and despair leads many to a place that they call "born again", and they find peace in a God or a Jesus, or an Allah, or the Buddha, but have finally found a haven from human pain and loneliness, from disgrace, a loving essence that will forgive them and save them with grace.
What if we each have grace, since birth, and most likely before? Just remember to never kneel before false idols because none in the human flesh is greater or better than you.
We are each born from a spiritual realm that we came from before, and this life is just perhaps a chance to learn much more. It's a chance to be free to be, to be honest and true, while inside the flesh of this realm, this cage of reality, to perhaps stand outside alone sometimes, where things don't feel so safe, but the soul tries to remain free?
But, in truth, what the fuck do I really know for sure?