The pain stems from a person who does not accept reality and always lives in the "Garden of Eden" in his heart, thinking about getting what he wants, but seeing the truth of the world, that is, helpless.
Many people said they were unhappy. In fact, in the final analysis, I still want too much, but the ability is too low. I don't like too many things, but very little can be changed.
Some people say that there are three keys to life: accept, change and leave. If you understand these three points, you will be happier!
First, accept what happened.
The world is big, and sometimes we are powerless for many things. No one's life goes smoothly, what matters is how you view it.
We must treat people and things with a peaceful heart, and don't be proud of luck, and don't bow our heads because of misfortune. Over time, you will find yourself possessing a halo that will attract more positive people and things.
Second, change is unbearable.
Accepting what already exists is a kind of wisdom, but it doesn't mean you have to wrong yourself.
If you can't bear it, you don't need to bear it anymore. When someone or something seriously affects you, don't suffer humiliation for the sake of face, but have the courage to fight for yourself and change the status quo.
If you don't say anything, other people will really not understand, but will treat you as a good person and bully. They ask you again and again, but there is no return and gratitude.
I hope you know how to fight for your own benefit. It is yours and yours, and it cannot be used by others. You must live on the edges and corners, you can smile very simply and brilliantly at your friends, but you must be unwavering in the face of enemies.
There are many ways to solve the problem, and keeping it as it is and struggling is the most useless way. Although the truth is cruel, there is no shortage of people who give silently in this world. Only those who dare to express their ideas can become the biggest winners.
Finally, giving up you can't change things.
Learning to let go at the right time is the highest grace. It is also a very high wisdom. Unable to let go of the pain will only increase the troubles, without any benefit, and will create obstacles to the future road, make people lose themselves, and produce more pain.
There are always things that make us helpless but powerless. But no matter when and where, don't forget to keep the sun in your heart. When the road is blocked, it is not a kind of wisdom to choose to detour.
When you learn to turn around wisely, you will find that there will be more beautiful scenery in the near future.
This series of questions in life is difficult to say, simple and simple, it depends on how you want to do it.
If you can't accept it, then change, if you can't change, then leave. Life is so short, for decades, there is really no need to make yourself too tired.
May you: I won’t miss the past, and I won’t live by myself in the future, with ups and downs in taste, alone with joy and sorrow, with kindness in my heart, light in my eyes, and living the life I want. Put a pair of freedom wings on your soul, chase the blue sky, perch on the white clouds, and soar in the sky happily.