We all know that the performance in the event of an accident best reflects a person's abilities and accomplishments.
So in work, what do we need to pay attention to?
Keep calm
The people who can really do great things are usually those who are passionate but calm. Their calm attitude will not only bring confidence to themselves, but also bring confidence to others to do things.
When encountering an accident, first control your temper, learn to remain calm, learn to deal with it calmly, and avoid expressing emotions.
Don't let others see your thoughts through your facial expressions, let alone your emotions dominate your way of doing things. The biggest failure in life is to make yourself a slave to your emotions.
Those who are capable often have no tempers, while those who are incapable are grumpy.
People who do big things are mature and know how to restrain their emotions because they know that losing their temper will not help solve problems.
Self-reflection
When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, you should first ask yourself where you are not doing well, and find and solve problems from them.
There is a story about a parrot in a family. This parrot is very beautiful, but it has a shortcoming: it has an unpleasant voice, coughs all day, and often makes a hoarse voice.
The hostess had to take the parrot to the vet.
The veterinarian checked the parrot and found that the parrot was healthy and there was no problem, so he told the hostess: "As the saying goes, the parrot learns its tongue. The reason why it makes this noise may be because someone in your home often coughs."
At this time, the hostess blushed. It turns out that she herself has a habit of smoking, so she often coughs, and the parrot just vividly imitated the cough of the hostess.
Whenever we are in trouble, we can easily find the mistakes of others and shirk responsibility. No one wants to be friends with such a person.
Therefore, first reflect on yourself when encountering a problem, so that it is more conducive to come up with a good solution.
Empathy
The most common mistake we make when encountering things is that there is something we don’t want to do, so we ask others for help, throw away what we should do to others, and never think about whether other people are willing to do it.
People who only consider themselves in everything and never consider others are the most selfish people.
Therefore, when we do things, we must consider more from the perspective of others.
A father asked his son to bring him a pen. The son accidentally picked up the pen on the table and handed it to him, but put the nib in his father's hand.
Father said seriously: "When you take things to others, you have to consider whether it is convenient for others to pick them up. You take the pen nib towards me, I have to turn it upside down, and it may get ink on my hands.
In addition, when handing a knife or scissors to someone, be very careful not to point the tip of the knife to someone else. "
We want to ask others to do things. We must first consider what this person likes and dislikes, and consider everything from the perspective of others.
When a noble person is pursuing interests, he will also consider the interests of others; while a despicable person will only consider his own interests when he is pursuing interests.
Therefore, when we encounter things, we must first learn to control our temper, and then we must reflect on ourselves and consider others more.