Parenting from a Reparenting Mindset

in parenting •  4 years ago 

I knew so many things about parenting! Or at least I did, until I actually became one. You aren’t a parent, and then you are. You have to hit the ground running.
I read the books. I talked to parents further along the path. Some of it even helped. There is some amazing information out there these days, especially if you want to take a neuroscientific approach.
https://www.guest-articles.com/news/its-about-to-get-weird-like-really-weird-29-03-2021
https://www.guest-articles.com/news/8-things-you-dont-have-to-do-anymore-29-03-2021
https://www.topfind88.com/post/1457851/it-s-about-to-get-weird-like-really-weird
https://mexip58016.medium.com/i-texted-my-ex-wife-5e4ad708f872
https://www.posts123.com/post/1457874/8-things-you-don-t-have-to-do-anymore
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/User_talk:Rosejubed#Three_Life_Lessons_From_a_Dying_Man
https://adihasanti2.medium.com/three-life-lessons-from-a-dying-man-d3cbfc5e843b
https://anasthasaamelia.medium.com/you-dont-have-to-be-wealthy-to-be-good-with-money-9b13f8362925
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No matter what I learned though, it still felt like there were an endless number of split-second decision that I needed to make every day — especially as my daughter tilted over into toddlerhood — that were too complicated to warrant a one-size solution.
I didn’t have the time or the luxury to learn to parent before I needed to be a parent. So I figured, why not try something I did have practice, knowledge, and experience doing?
I’ve had to do a lot of reparenting in the last few years. You too?
Reparenting in a Nutshell
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The idea is that some parental pieces were missing when your childhood puzzle was put together. There are plenty of reasons — parents who were young, parents who were busy surviving, parents who suffered abuse, parents with addictions — but now you’re (supposed to be) a grown up and something is missing. Key skills. Weird gaps in your adulting.
If you’re not sure, check out this amazing article by Jessica A on 3 clear signs you need to reparent yourself.

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