oh my goodness; sounds very hardcore; good luck and have fun! I'm sure they will be what you are looking for. If its hard to get it; there must be a good reason. A good way to find those who are dedicated, social and love the hardcore side of PoE.

I just need a hoodie and sunglasses so I can slink around anonymously...

hahaha I'm not sure about that; I think your inner chatterbox will give you away. Also you won't be able to contain yourself once you are there. The excitement will take you over.