The world is contaminated with people who are exploitative. They are widespread and they are more than ready to use people for their advantage. They are those kind who never have empathy and compassion. They think life as a matter of competition.

Egotistical or me-first is what best describes them. They can be anyone whom we spend time with such as our friend, family member, partner, teacher, or a person in the authority. They have nothing in mind but taking advantage of our kindness for their own benefit. These are the people who spit toxicity which makes us exhausted and deceived. This brings us to the point of losing our faith in humanity.

They exist everywhere and they continue to feed their ego with success; a kind of success that a sane man should never ever do. Their style of being on top is devilish as they deceive us, playing their sickening game on us.

Many of us have been under their spell and not knowing how to get away with these kind of people as they are charming and eloquent enough. They have mastered the art of tricking and exploiting human beings.

As the world is never perfect so as its people.

However, we can always do something about it to save ourselves from damage or more damage. We have to learn to read the red flags in every situation. Our instinct can never be wrong. This sends us some signal to our very own body, when something is uncomfortable then that is real.

When we meet this kind of people, we have to run away and never ever look back. It is not cowardice it is giving value to our very own self before worse things get tangled us. We never want to be cheated or deceived or being used in the first place, so risking our lives with those kind of people should never ever take place.

My life, your life, our lives are precious. Let us save ourselves from the many predators that are scattered around. Let us save our lives to people who deserve our kindness, those who value us and never objectify us.

This is a continuation of my PAUSE FOR THOUGHT BLOG: WEEK 35

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~Month of AUGUST

Week 34 click here BROKENNESS AND HOWs | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 33 click here HELP RIGHTLY! | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 32 click here HOW DO YOU LIVE YOUR LIFE? | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 31 click here HAVING “DON’T CARE” ATTITUDE TO WIN | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT

~Month of JULY

Week 30 click here NEVER FORGET TO REWARD YOURSELF | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 29 click here CLING TO THAT TINY HOPE | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 28 click here WHEN IN DOUBT, LISTEN TO YOUR INSTINCT | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 27 click here WHAT OUR DREAMS NEED... | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT

~Month of JUNE

Week 26 click here GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 25 click here BEST OF LUCK TO THOSE WHO KEEP GOING! | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 24 click here BEST OF LUCK TO THOSE WHO KEEP GOING! | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 23 click here CHANGE, FRIENDSHIP, AND NO ONE STAYS THE SAME | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 22 click here MONEY AND LIVING TO UPLIFT OTHERS | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT

~Month of MAY

Week 21 click here …AND DREAMS ARE REAL, BE BOLD! |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 20 click here NEVER LOSE HOPE IN LOVE |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 19 click here DEVELOP YOUR POTENTIAL FULLY, NEVER SETTLE FOR MEDIOCRITY |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 18 click here REJECTION IN LOVE: HOW SOME MEN SEE IT| PAUSE FOR THOUGHT

~Month of APRIL

Week 17 click here KINDNESS AS A UNIVERSAL LANGUAGE | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 16 click here MAYBE IT'S NOT HOW YOU DO WELL IN SCHOOL BUT HOW YOU DO WELL IN LIFE, GENERALLY | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 15 click here STOP COMPLAINING, CHANGE YOUR SITUATION INSTEAD |PAUSE FOR THOUGHT
Week 14 click here I MADE IT! | SUCCESS OF MY 13-WEEK SELF-IMPROVEMENT CHALLENGE

~Month of MARCH

Week 13 click here ALL BEAUTIFUL THINGS ARE MEANT TO END
Week 12 click here NO THOUGHT OF 'I WISH I COULD HAVE DONE BETTER
Week 11 click here BEING A RESPONSIBLE ADULT AND AGING GRACEFULLY
Week 10 click here IN LOVE? LADIES, DON'T BE BLINDED, SPOT THE ABUSIVE TREATMENT FROM YOUR PARTNER | CELEBRATING INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY
Week 9 click here JEALOUS? WHY NOT CELEBRATE OTHER PEOPLE'S SUCCESS?

~Month of FEBRUARY

Week 8 click here THEY'RE RACIST SO SHE SLAPPED THEM WITH MERCEDES BENZ
Week 7 click here DO NOT TAKE ALL THINGS PERSONALLY
Week 6 click here LIMITING BELIEFS ON THE LANGUAGE OF LOVE
Week 5 click here LISTEN, JUST LISTEN... THAT's ALL WE NEED

~Month of JANUARY

Week 4 click here SEIZE THE OPPORTUNITY, NOW!
Week 3 click here GRANNY, THE CRANBERRIES, AND DEATH
Week 2 click here DON'T LOOK BACK IN ANGER
Week 1 click here OF ADVERSITIES & FAITH
To check the background of this challenge click here PAUSE FOR THOUGHT

I do not think you have to run away from such a person. Unless you are sure of yourself, that you have confidence in your abilities, you can confront them with their ego, their arrogance and their malice.
We can act in different ways, without fleeing or fighting.
If we give the best of ourselves to the people who deserve it we create a society with two speeds, where the bad guys will have more and more power and where kindness will be a sign of weakness.

" I am the mage destroyer of the established power
The wizard who before the dark forces never wavered
I bathe in the light and the shade
my black dove is the spell I cast for good and evil to be one! " IMG_20180519_201613[784].png

p.s my english is not so good, i used google translate, i did not found a spell for learn english :p

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columbadubh (45) · 6 years ago

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julsmlz (51) · 6 years ago

@columbadubh thanks for droppin’ I appreciate it. Well I respect your opinion, you have a point. However, there are people who don’t want drama and confrontation like me who value harmony and peace. Sometimes shutting those kind of people off is best for one’s physical, emotional, and mental health.

I agree with you that at times it is better not to conflict.
Thank you for your text that can help some people.

SAVE YOURSELF FROM DECEPTION | PAUSE FOR THOUGHT Week 35