I get a call last night. My friend who I haven’t seen for about a year is parked outside my house unexpectantly. He wants to catch up..
I love my buddy. Good laughs, crazy adventures. However, he lies, he embellishes, some things are true, and many things are not true. In any case, he has a good heart. He has also had some rough experiences when he was younger. I think those experience kinda screwed him up.
I grab a bottle of my favorite scotch and bring it outside. I see he has arrived in his new cadillac.
“You want a dirty cigarette?”, he say’s
looking down at my e-cig I say, “yes”.
I then offer my favorite scotch to him. Catching up he shows me pictures of miss universe Canada. He tells me who he f**ked. Who this is and who that is..
High Rollers.. right?
One part of me say’s I could have lived this once. I decided to get married early on and miss out on partying in my twenties. I then got divorced, and more than a decade later I had the opportunity to do what I could have done in my twenties. I partied it up with my friend, but I never took it too far with women. Sex isn’t just getting off; at least to me.
The second time around, I found it was easy to speak to women. I could get inside their mind and capture their attention. I can talk to the most beautiful women with ease. But, for some odd reason I caught the marriage bug again. I could have been a player this second time around. I guess I wasn’t interested in the party life.
In any case, point blank he say’s, “I am now running an escort agency”.
I was like what? You are now a pimp?
I don’t even know if I believe him anyways, but then he continued on his rant about how the government are the biggest pimps around. They are the gangsters. I’m not sure if he was justifying what he is doing, or even what the connection was.
No one ever decided life would be easy, and that includes having no recollection of ever wanting to be born..
I wasn’t really sure what to say, but only that he was acting no differently. I don’t judge him as he is a friend, but we are on two completely different paths. I am married now with kids, and having a friend who is a “pimp” in many respects has got me at a moral crossroad.
- Yes, live and let live.
In any case, having a conversation with him was difficult. His phone kept on ringing incessantly. I invited him inside, but alas he had a new “adventure” to drive off too.
As he drove off, I knew I had made the right choice of settling down. The world of money and politics is full of corruption. I would rather watch it from afar and attempt to stay out of the spotlight.
Taking the high road is not easy my friend. Kudos for you for not going down that path!
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Woah. Sounds like you definitely made the right choice when compared this way. I hope your friend gets better...
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I totally get you being on a moral crossroads when it comes to do these kind of things.
You know what really helps me when I am faced with these kind of feelings, is just remembering that everyone has their own path in life.
This doesn't mean that you should enable or even support him but just being honest about how you think of it and telling him that in the most respectful way you can.
Or atleast, that's what I do.
A good friend of mine is a pretty big drug dealer.
I know everything.
And I just tell him how he has chosen this path and it's up to him to deal with the consequences but I in no way will enable him (he has asked me to help him shift his stuff).
:)
Just sharing my lil story here haha
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thanks for sharing your opinion and experiences.
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Looking at life through the lens of the morality of the petit bourgeois (middle class) is very limiting and probably not wise. Ultimately, its not what you do for a living but when you learn in that process which may enlighten yourf soul. Running an escort agency is neither better or worst than running an architectual agency.
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