About true Love and possessive AttachmentsteemCreated with Sketch.

in philosophy •  5 years ago 

Love is not a Transaction. Love has no boundaries and no conditions. Love means to offer space, understanding and acceptance to the beloved. It is the abscence of separation and distinction and is ultimately the natural relation between beings of the same origin and mother. Love is more than a feeling, it is a state of being in harmony with the whole Cosmos.

Unfortunately, however, we have forgotten about our unity and communion. The theory of Evolution holds that he survives who is strongest, he who preys on the others for his or her personal advantage. We have come to be more focused on our separateness than on our unity and therefore we have closed our hearts. We fear and try to protect ourselves.

Love has sadly become an transaction. Something to be offered very carefully and thoughtfully, only when certain conditions of feelings and thoughts have been met. But this is only an after image of true Love. This is merely possessive attachment towards certain feelings, pleasures and security for the Ego. Like this, however, love always goes hand in hand with grief and sorrow, even hatred and condemnation, for once certain conditions are not anymore met, the so called and felt love crumbles to pieces and becomes absent. The heart closes again until the moment when it will once more feel ready to open up and to express love.

Love may be felt towards anything. It must not have nothing to do with sexual desire or exclusiveness at all.

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