Everybody remembers the movie Hitch, right? Can good pick up lines win over a girl? Yes and no. A pro can deliver a pick up line with positive results while an amateur can deliver the same line with failing results. While as a pro can say a terrible line and still get away with it.
I say it is the delivery.
Say the line with authority and meaning and it could yield positive results. Say the same line softly and with out drive and you’ll get blown out of the water.
Timing is key also.
Butting into a conversation while a girl is conversing with her friends or yapping on the phone is hazardous to to man’s health. Wait for a pause or if she’s alone for a few minutes.
Do not forget the follow up.
Good pick up lines to get a girl are always followed up with a smile, some laughter or a quick change of subject. Quickly asking for her name and her friends name hides the fact that you even delivered a pick up line. At this point you can even say, “Sorry about the pick up line, I just really wanted to meet you.”
This does three things. It tells her you’re interested. It makes you humble and it displays politeness all at the same time.
I tell guys to keep their lines simple.
This may very well be an important part of this theme. They should not sound canned or rehearsed. I have heard lots of lines from descent looking guys, man this can be amusing. Men think they need that perfect saying to land a woman. I say keep it simple. Hi, what’s your name. How has your summer been?
Maybe you are thinking saying hi is boring but it is better than 99% of canned pick up lines. It is what you say next that will make or break the pick up.
Compliments are a little more tricky but work.
The key is in the delivery. You must sound sincere. Women love when you sincerely compliment them. You can compliment a girl on her outfit. Remember, she changed her skirt 4 times. No one was there to tell her how she looks. You will be the first.
Here is another compliment you can give. Look for a cool hair style she may have. Tell her, “Your hair is right on tonight.” Then say hi and ask for her name.
Conclusion
The perfect saying is over rated. Be yourself, deliver it smoothly and with conviction and you’ll have the ultimate pick up line to get a girl.