The reason why you keep finding people who are just like your ex is that you are still exercising your same old habits that attracted them. Now those habits are attracting people just like them. It's time to let it all go. The pains and habits which keep them fueled will now belong only to the past.
May the force be with us.
what's wrong @camillesteemer? Downvoting lots of my posts already. You can talk to me if you find something wrong. 👌😉 And as far as I've noticed, you're using different accounts huh ? Not fair though.
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I was re-thinking about James Clear's book Atomic Habits, and he has a self-talk process that helps people make the decisions that will help them change.
First you self label, say you want to be healthier, you would picture a friend or idealized healthy person and think what would they do.
Then is comes time, when you are asked if you would like that donut, you can make your decision by politely saying no, because that's what a healthy person would do, and you are a healthy person. You aren't going to become this thing, you are it already.
I sum it up in as, "Be the change you want to be".
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such wisdom you got there huh @noloafing :) hit me unnoticed. And also, it gave me such enlightenment to some details I'm trying to deal right now.
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