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According to me , It's based on each and everyone's wishes and daily life...❤️
Here I start....
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There are many doors which you open daily but there are few doors which and not visible but needs our attention. These doors
are mainly hidden or suppressed by different feeling. One such door is of Love.
Love is a basic need a person require. The feeling that you belong
somewhere is what one strives for the most. A feeling which gives
you power to fight all your hardships. Love is a type of medicine to
all your sorrows. Love not only gives you power but also makes
you feel more beautiful, more connected and happier. There are
times when you can't see that love is there with you. This lacking
leads to the search of some outside dependable love. We think
that only an outsider can love us better and know us better but can
heart completely express itself to others. The heart is the most
beautiful part even in the most hardest time this heart never lets
itself out just to control yourself losing all it's uniqueness from others. We always try to find love from others and if we don't find
one, we feel lonely and often say that in this whole world there is no one who loves us whole heartedly. This loneliness soon becomes a habit, a habit which doesn't allow you to free yourself
and experience love. The love which is always present but is
neglected. The most precious type of love which the feeling of loneliness imprisoned. Yes it's the selflove. A love which doesn't
demand anything. A love which is purely yours. There is no other
person who can know you or love you better than yourself. All you
need to do is unlock this door and experience it. It's hard but not
impossible. We give all our energy to love others but never take
initiative to love ourselves. It's rightly said that" The most cruelest
person is not the one who hates others but the one who doesn't
love himself".
People bring out millions of reason why they don't like themselves
but feel hard to find five good reasons to love themselves. It
doesn't matter how many reasons you find to dislike yourself start
to find one reason to love yourself and cancel one reason of dislike
with it. With this way start to love yourself a little more than the
previous day. Start accepting yourself because this is the only
person in this whole world who can love you unconditionally. If on
the scale of love you stand at zero try to reach one today and two
the another day. If you are standing on minus hundred try to reach
out for minus ninety-nine. Start taking small steps everyday. Try to
admire yourself more than before. No matter what your skin type is or how your body is unfit or which color your hairs are. These
hardly matters you need to accept the way you are and love
yourself that way. Even if you are fat don't stop eating if you love it.
If you are skinny don't put your favourite pair of jeans inside the
cupboard pull it out and wear it with confidence. If you are dark
remember almost everyone likes dark chocolate. You don't need to
change for others approval just do what you like love yourself.
Take yourself out on dates. Don't worry about any scar or marks or
flaws over your body because if you accept it and love yourself the
way you are there is no one who can stop you or judge you. Admire
yourself everytime you look into the mirror. Just love yourself.
Everything in life will disappear one day but one thing that will stay
with you till the end will be the love you give to yourself. There is no
scar out side or no flaw outside but inside our brain and heart
which we are habitual of. No matter if outward scar can't be cured
your inside scar can always be cured with some selflove. Years
ago even I hated myself and felt lonely looking at my own self but
then I started simple things to show love towards my ownself. I
started taking myself out on dates. Treated myself to good food
and movies. Did every possible thing to feel loved and best part was, it never demanded anything from me. I discovered this power
of love which completely changed me in to a better and confident
person. I am happy I opened the most beautiful magical door," The Door of Self Love"...
KEEP WRITING 🙂...
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