One of the worst things you can do towards another human being
Is to not confirm their suffering
Is to, in different ways, say that their pain is not that bad
This is to kick on someone that’s already on the ground
To make the trauma even worse
If no one understands a trauma
It becomes a double trauma
And if no one even believe your trauma
It becomes a triple trauma
Pain is limitless, it just goes on and on, deeper and harder
Be careful with whom you tell your pain to
Can they understand? Can they handle it?
If you don’t think they can
Do yourself a favor
Don’t tell them
Rather than good advices
And cheesy cheer up phrases
Just listen, just try to understand
It’s better to say too little than saying too much
Dark and deep trauma pain is something most people can’t handle