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@poetsunit banned me from their platform unceremoniously, why? Because I apparently did not follow their rules to their liking. It started yesterday when I posted something on their sharing channel. When I joined a week or two ago I was told to share as much as possible and told it was the appropriate place. So I was surprised to receive a reprimand by the founder of the place in a pretty rude tone. after I vented my frustration the tone became more cordial so I decided to give it another try today for their contest.
So by all intents and purposes I followed all the rules, tagged them, upvoted more than the required two people form the forum (which I did even before they made it mandatory ) and linked to their discord. But nope was not good enough!
My crime? I had not announced wo I had been upvoting, which I find reprehensive anyway. I get that you need active users but the person who spoke to me last knew that I had been ill as we had discussed it thoroughly a day or two ago and also knew that I was active on the forum since feeling better. I truly understand that there needs to be rules, but policing your members like the gestapo forcing them to prostitute upvotes, which should always be a genuine token of appreciation between content creator and the reader, is repugnant; and also goes against my cultural sensibilities, and I bet more than my own.
This applauding of oneself and using ones voting power as means to agrandise oneself is a very American thing. It just goes against my very nature ! Also I am not child nor did I sign over any of my autonomy. How sad a group must be that feels it has to force their members to loyalty and appreciation. Maybe the true issue is lost here, maybe quality of members should go over a mass of people you have to corral like sheep! The way the issue was handled was also completely without grace. When you are not even allowed to state frustration and are immediately blocked and banned it says a lot about people. Also maybe sending members a private message telling them that there are new rules in pace might have really helped the situation. As is I just joined because of @poetrybyjeremy who I genuinely like and has been nothing but a joy to communicate with. As I am obviously not well made for dictatorships I probably would have left anyway if my concerns over the announcing votes had not been at least open to debate. In the end it is their loss from now on I will just ignore their general existence and carry on with my life.
If any of you plan on some form of retaliation because of this post just remember that honorless behaviour like that just says more about you then it says about me. If you must you must, I will not censor myself out of fear of abuse it just isn't who I am.
(Image credit Dave Renike and a portrait of the fair jubilee made by myself turned into this here universal truth meme)
I will discourage any retaliation, as much as possible. Not every community is a good fit for every individual. That's fine. Even despotism, while repugnant to you and me, isn't something I would challenge as long as all of the despot's subjects submit to their whims voluntarily. Of course, that is contrary to the definition of despotism. I will fight for the freedom of others, even sometimes when they oppose me doing so, but I cannot fight every battle. I cannot save everyone, and I have found peace in accepting that fact.
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Oh for me the thing is done I said what I had to say with this here piece but I also know how crappy people are and know that some might take offense in me posting this. I can't say I rust in human decency these days...
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You are right I try to join a few groups here... but the
tone was very rough to much control.
So I stopped, like you said it’s there loss not your 🤓.
We Steem On...
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I am sorry to hear this - I have left you a long discord message upon learning upon this. There should be no backlash - if anyone does any flags or anything, do let me know. One thing that I want you to know is that I hope our relationship does not change, as the actions of the group do not reflect upon me.
I do not condone dictatorship-like behaviour and stand with you on this issue. Due to my role within the group, I will try to refrain from making any biased statements. Communities seek to grow for the benefit of everyone and should value everyone's opinion.
One of the reasons the 'rule' was introduced is that there were several users who simply 'used' the group to dump their links and never engage. Although the rule was put into place to encourage communication and engagement, I can see that it does not necessarily result in so - and we know it too. I have received several comments that are just "good post" where people do not actually read our content. Several groups have tested with this kind of rule, and every community tries to see what is the best strategy for its growth. Being mature and having discussions should be part of the strategy - if people are unhappy, it will lead to disengagement. Again, I am truly sorry that it ended like this, in having you banned.
I know that you are deeply loved and respected in other groups/communities, and I hope we can stay in contact :)
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No this has nothing to do with you and me, we were friends before them and we are after them. Now if you steal my PIE all bets are off ;)
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Well, don't mention the pie and I wouldn't know about it ;)
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Ah that is hard to do as it is the nucleus of my soul ;)
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I am truly sorry that this all happened and I know I didn't do everything as good as I could have, my sincere apologies for that. That last sentence was uncalled for I know but i got angry myself because of the anger in your words. We work our asses off for this community day and night and felt you did not appreciate that.
After reading all that has gone on I see your point and that there was some miscommunication going on.. Please unblock me on Discord so we can talk it over and understand each other better. If you prefer not to do it I will respect that, but it would be better if we can get rid of our frustrations in this matter. I never wanted all of this to happen and appologize again for my part in it.
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Thank you so much for all the shout out love on the banner, for serious.
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