You seem to be confused about many things, for example: 1. democrats do not believe in personal freedom. All freedoms are determined by the state. 2. You didn't mention abortion, but it is implied. It is far from a peaceful choice, it involves the killing of another human being. 3. Separation of Church and state is a fallacy and unconstitutional. The church needs to be the conscience of the country. Unfortunately it has been co-opted by government rules that prevent it from doing its job.