Here is what I prefer.
I prefer for people with nonstandard pronouns to stop putting any effort into making people who don't use them feel uncomfortable (or even worse threatened with violence from the state).
I prefer for people who don't use nonstandard pronouns to make a mild effort towards calling people what they want to be called (even if its something ridiculous like attack helicopter..if you don't respect them don't talk to them in the first place)
I prefer for people like Lauren Southern to stop spending so much time talking with negative and hateful speech towards people who are transgender and statist. Sure they want government to protect them...so be loving instead so they are less fearful. When you are hateful and aggressive, it only amplifies their desire for government protection. Intentionally calling a queer by a pronoun they dislike then laughing that they cant handle it is like waving a gun at a gun control advocate who is scared of guns. It just makes the situation worse and divides the population more.