The MOMENTS that MATTER...

in powerhousecreatives •  6 years ago  (edited)

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Everyone that knows me well, knows that Thursday is my MIA day! It is the one day of the week that my mom and I "catch up". We rotate dinners between her place and ours. So every second Thursday, I get the night off from cooking :) We have been doing this for years now and it is a tradition I am in NO hurry to give up. We stick the tunes on, talk a lot about a lot and a lot about nothing, drink too much wine, eat whatever delicious food has been prepared by either one of us or by us conjointly and simply throw caution to the wind as a whole haha!


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The older I get, the more I reflect on how important small moments like this are. Time spent with those that are truly a part of our heart. The people that WANT to hear our random stories, share a slice of our day and honestly WANT an active part of our lives.


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It made me reflect on a few years back when some friends and I used to do "dinner club". There was a group of about 8 of us and every week we would rotate the chef. Each week, the chef would prepare the menu and invite everyone to their place. Each of us would contribute a small sum to the cost of the food etc. Those were some of the most FABULOUS evenings! We would do all SORTS of fun things... themed evenings, dress ups etc.

Apologies in advance for the bad pics. Those were the days of crapberry lol

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Through nothing other than "life" and general circumstance, none of us have seen one another in YEARS now. We all live in somewhat of a "whirlwind" and I think we often forget to take a moment to REALLY appreciate the value of such jovial moments - you know, the ones "filled with fun and nonsense". It does not matter who they are spent with, just that we begin to see their worth and importance in the greater picture.

Yes, all our paths wander, and we may NEVER connect directly with some people again... but that does not render the moments spent with those individuals any less worthy... be it a one off occasion, days, weeks, months years or a lifetime! They are all facets which continue to add to our album of experience.

I have learnt so much from ALL of the people that were and ARE present in my life and I am eternally grateful for each and EVERY moment, every encounter - good or bad. At each present moment, they were ALL in love.


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Until next time...
Much Love from Cape Town, South Africa xxx

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beautiful capture of the young beauties.

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Mwah!!!

It's important to know and always remember what's important in life... and typically the best things in life are not things.

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...thank goodness for that! How BLAND life would be (and is for many - sadly)

What a wonderful Thursday routine! 🥰 Precious moments with loved ones, that’s all we take with us. Memories. Keep building them 😊

So true!

You simply reflect like your mom's in those picture..👍 ...good to know of your routine, spending time with loved ones make life happier....

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hahaha yes, many people tell me that - although others say I look more like my dad. :)

It's so wonderful that you and your mother connect on a regular basis and really enjoy each other's company. Loved seeing all the times you shared with close friends. Yes, even though eventually our lives go separate ways and we may not ever see each other again, we are still connected.

I sometimes reflect on all the thousands of people I have connected to throughout my life. Each one playing a part in how my being has been shaped. Grateful for reading your article and being reminded once again Jaynie. ♥︎♥︎⚖️♥︎♥︎

Glad you enjoyed it hon. And yes I am also very grateful to have such a close relationship with my mom :)

Beautiful post

Beautiful moments can't be traded with anything else. So much love in this post!!! =)

They really are the most important things in life aren't they :)

Gosh, @jaynie, you are such a positive force in the world :) But .... grounded. Full with honest goodness as you celebrate the moments and the people that have come to be in your life for the time being :D An amazingly beautiful post, @jaynie <3

Reading it, I got a real smile on my face! :D :D :D

The photos are so great and so personal, and you look really radiant in them <3

What a beautiful thing to say! Thank you!!!!

What lovely traditions! I need to establish some new ones. You have inspired me. My kids are growing up and moving on. I love that tradition with your mom. I may adopt that one!

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Yes it is wonderful and something we both look forward to every week :)

Love and cherish these moments! It is over before you know it!
You looks great on those picture, for sure with the post of yesterday in mind. Nothing wrong with that ... euhm. I better stop here 🙀

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HAHAHAHA!!!!! I Didnt transform into a "blubber blob" @fullcoverbetting hehehe... just some tweaking required lol - but I shall also shut up now and accept the compliment ;)

Euhm not at all. Maybe it is best to just take the compliment!
You are lucky! I am not that photogenic 😂

Thats what we ALL tell ourselves! and you know what I have learnt... its fncking bullsh!t ;)

So very true - we tend to be consumed by the rat race and take people for granted. Only when we get older we start seeing more and more how important it is. Youth is wasted on the young because we only get more brains later in life hahaah

hahaha too true!!!

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Ah, yes, I remember some of those pics... and

all our paths wander, and we may NEVER connect directly with some people again... but that does not render the moments spent with those individuals any less worthy... be it a one off occasion, days, weeks, months years or a lifetime!

Spot on!

Look at those two beautiful ladies!!!

Looks as if you all had some good times! I've never seen so many people smiling all at once- it's as if I can hear your laughter!

Lovely post - and yes, I treasure those times xxx

This is so sweet! Your mom looks adorable. And that Idea of the dinner club sounds like bug fun :3

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I cherish all the talks and moments, even the arguments with my Mum
Your post just made me reflect and miss her

So many phases of friends in my life, some who still are friends but the dynamics changed :D

Enjoyed looking at all those pictures
Thank you for sharing a slice of your past :D

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I will always and forever treasure those moments, especially the ones with my mom and me. She passed away not so long ago and just seeing these pictures of your mother and you remind me of how close her and I were and how she was always part of the landscape. It's funny how things are started, slowly and over time, a tradition is born. I really like that second picture where she's giving you the sideways look as if to say what the heck are you doing? She's such a beautiful woman and you and her share so many of the same features/looks and moments.

Spending time with friends is great therapy. Spending time with someone who can walk away for 10 years and walk back into your life like they were never gone is amazing. I have always wondered about this phenomenon, and yet I have experienced it myself. I know that a true friend will always be in your heart no matter how long or how far they are. Their love will reside forever.

I love your dinner Club and can honestly say that we had something similar but true, it was some of the most fabulous evenings in my life and we did themes also. Perhaps that's the part of me that never wanted to grow up. We did high tea and had to dress in full formal and while that sounds like a lot of trouble I can honestly say it was a hoot! Oh! We speak American so maybe you will not find this funny or understand this, or understand the funny in it, but we all have to speak with a British accent at the high tea. Did I mention that there is wine before the it? Or after? But truly, the British accent was much better if we had one before.

You paint such a beautiful picture of love and laughter and friendship. He gives me a warm fuzzy just looking through those pictures and knowing that you were sharing your moments. Fun and laughter, silliness. It didn't matter. It was that bonding moment, the closeness felt, the love, the laughter. There's so many things involved. And if by chance, any one of those people walk back into your life oh, it will be like they never left.

As an aside, when we did our dinners, sometimes we did Progressive dinners, where two or three people were involved and we would do the hors d'oeuvres at one house, the mean dinner at another house, and dinner and after drinks at another house. Of course this only works if you live close , and some of us did. Some of that time was when we were all in college and had apartments and lived close and some was after when we were a little bit more established, always and forever it was fun. And yes, it will always be those moments however big however small that melts my heart. Thank you for reminding me that Love is All Around.

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Looks like you have a good life...

I have a lot to be grateful for, yes :)