Can you assume that a fragile membrane of one centimeter, the entire five-footed girls can be heavily burdened! It may sound strange to hear, and also, but alas that the truth is this. A membrane which is called 'Hyman' in the language of science, we can make the entire existence of girls stand in any moment. Many girls will rarely be able to see or feel it, but the blackness of this pink membrane is often shadowed on their mind.
Now when the thing starts with the hymn, you talk about it first. Most girls have a pink membrane inborn in the vagina. The belief is that if a girl has had a break, then she has had sexual relations. It is also known as the loss of that girl's virginity or the dissolution of 'sexuality' or 'virginity'. In Indian society it is still considered not only highly embarrassing but it is almost unacceptable.
We believe that not only our entire childhood and caption are imprisoned in our defense of this sexuality but our basic freedom is also taken away from us. "The whole tension of saving virginity is only because women can give this mental pleasure to their husband that he is the first man in his life. That is what you have saved yourself from other boys / men for years. Thousands of instructions are given to girls before marriage - Do not go here, do not meet them, do not be friends with boys, come back to this time, relatives do not go here. I think that these restrictions are only put in the mind of protecting their virginity. "Yashavini Pathak, who works as Assistant Professor in Surat, we can say this also - Virginity is ours, but our But not even for us. So many of us have now started believing that when it is not for us, then what is the use of saving it!
Gradually the time is coming when this trend of keeping the virginity is going to be a thing of fidget for most girls. But even today there is no shortage of such girls who do not dare to break their virginity even if they do not believe in it. Some of these rituals come with heavy dosage, and in the mind of some, it keeps going on every time that if someone knows what will happen? Sometimes it is also possible to not get the right opportunity. Now a good thing in this case is that these girls do not consider them as bad, who have chosen to lose their virginity on their own.
Durga, a marketing professional coming from Benaras, has lived in Mumbai for many years. They say, 'This is not such a big thing, which is supposed to be so fierce. If the boys want a virgin girl for themselves, then they should also keep their virginity first. The entire society is still very conscious about girls' virginity and wants that girls remain virgin, but boys are not considered as such. I have to complain about this double scale society. '
But Durga, so openly thinking about virginity, gives a shocking information about herself. They say that they are going to be 40 years old and they are still virgin. Asked the reason for this, she says, "Despite being away from home for so many years, the condition of my brain is still very similar today. The truth is that after leaving myself completely free oftentimes I noticed that I could not find myself comfortable for this. Then, in what we do not feel comfortable then what will we do? I think that the fear of guilt about breaking my beliefs and my parents 'faith is what I want today-I'm an unwanted virgin!'
Divya Datta, who works in a Noida advertising company, shows a slightly more clear picture of women's thinking, 'I think boys are always the only one that their wife is virgin-yes. If not, then it goes. It only tells you that the boys inside are making a big difference in this matter. So, to tell them the truth is to buy the scourge. That's why I think it is better to lie on a boyfriend or husband's asking about this. Otherwise, they may taunt at a bad mood or on some other occasion or can create even more scenes. "But openness in our thinking about virginity can be understood by these words of Divya It is - 'Well, I think it is difficult to find such good girls and boys in today's time, who are the Virgin!'
In this way we are no longer a big question for virginity for girls. This is also applicable to a fairly relaxed and equitable understanding boys and parents. Even then, we have to admit that many dangerous thoughts associated with it are present in our society. One of them says that the girl who has lost her virginity for any reason, she is "played" and available for everyone. Some of these words are supported for this - 'Hey, once you've had fun with someone, then what is wrong with us!'
Divorced women are often victims of this. A private school teacher from Meerut, Swati Arya, says, 'I think many people feel that I am easily accessible to them! Without any such gesture from me, they assume that after marriage I have been sexually rebellious and since now I have no husband with them then they are eager to fulfill their shortcomings. Just wondering how much the disassembly is that only Mary