Blog 15: My Secret to Happiness :)

"Happiness can be found even in the darkest of times if one only reminds to turn on the light"

How do you define happiness? How will you know that you are happy? What are you doing when you are happy?What makes you really happy?Those are the few questions that are dancing in our minds when we think about the real meaning of happiness.

When we think about happiness, most of us tend to be single-mindedness on the “things” which are tangible. We are craving things that we thought we will be happy. It easier for us to create a list of those things that we want the world to give us, but we don’t even bother thinking of the things that we can give back to the world, the thought that the world offers us so many things that can make us happy.

We are living in the world with so many eyes looking us, We are living our lives with an instant feedback, Like for example when we are just posting picture on our social media account like Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram, One picture can speak a thousand words, and that sometimes happiness felt when reviews are all positive. Gadgets are tremendously addictive, especially nowadays that we are on a high technology and some of us can’t help but to ought the latest trend.

Material things will not bring lasting happiness to our lives. Happiness is a state of being, not a pile of stuff.

And so, I’m going to share with you my 4 secrets to Happiness :D

We have different point of views and even feelings on how we will able to feel real happiness and this is mine 

• Make time for your Love ones
  
  (Quality Time with Family and Friends!)

Life is too short, so we must give time to our loved ones. Every time I go home I make sure that I give time to my family and as much as possible, I’ll show them how much they really mean to me, initiate bonding and all, also to my dear friends every time I’m free I tend to visit them and go out sometime, go to beach, strolling in the town and make memories together:D

• Share your Blessings :D
  
  (Pinning and hooding of my two younger sisters during their graduation day! not my babies anymore :))
  Sharing your blessing is what makes life worth living, when I graduated from my college and started to have a work, I helped my family, and be able to help my younger sister to finished their studies, and I was so happy when my two younger sisters graduated in college. I saw the happiness of my parents when they see us helping each other to be a successful individual and that is more important. I always remind them how tough life is, and to just fight life can what may.

• Forgive and forget 
  
  (Just love, forget the past and acknowledge the present!)

Yes, this is one factor why I am happy now, to forgive those people who caused pain in my life, and that takes it in a positive way and understand that everything happens for reason. Though it is the hardest thing to do, but when you let go your anger and realized that it will all make sense one day, you will feel relief and you will be Happy, Of course I forgive myself, for letting them hurt me and for not doing the things that I really wanted to do than doing things that they want me to do. It’s fine, because I know one day everything will be worth it 

• Travel 

“Traveling is an extraordinary experience every person needs. It opens you a whole new world out there and reveals your inner strength”

(Enjoy life on what it is discover the world us much as you can! Life is beautiful, Go! Travel!)

There is nothing quite like traveling, like seeing a new place for the first time or returning to a favorite place. I love traveling, it is actually my comfort zone, to relieve my stress and sadness, It is a way of finding yourself, It also helps me to form a better understanding of myself, my beliefs and my life it also provides a better understanding of the world in which I live, even if it's beyond my immediate environment. My happiness is overflowing when I discover something different, meet different people and know their culture. A new perspective will form that made me realized that life is worth living.

The happier you are, the better the chances that you will actually enjoy what you have and what life has offered to you. Happiness is vital for it helps in many aspects of our lives especially in achieving our goals. Being happy is actually motivates others life just by being you, yourself!

So be happy 

Thank you for reading!
Until my next Blog!

Much love and respect
@micch