About the pleasure of being a mistress

In the previous article I wrote about the suffering of women in the status of a mistress

Only suffering does not come immediately, of course, otherwise it is unlikely that people would enter into such a relationship. The status of a lover has many advantages and pleasures that you do not want to lose. And I'm not just talking about the material side of the issue, although often it can be one of the motives.

This topic causes a lot of condemnation, someone can insult, blame, and still can secretly envy.

Mistress, at first glance, has:

1. Power. I mean, that there is a feeling that you know more than your wife, you are better than your wife, beloved and more important.
2. Freedom. I can do what I want, meet with anyone I want, choose, try. I have my time and my life, I do not belong to anyone, but there is a man for pleasure.
3. Attention and admiration. A married man lures, conquers, grooms, acquaints with business partners, and gives the first couple of so much attention and admiration that his head is spinning.
4. Passion. These relations are illegal, dangerous, this man is unavailable, there is the opportunity to disclose himself from yet unknown parties, to try something that he could not afford earlier.
5. The material part, of course. You can say that these women are kept, pro, and so on, but you will agree which woman does not want to be gifted; be under the wing of a strong and wealthy man?

In general, there is a lot of pleasure and you do not want to lose it at all.

The ambush begins when all this pleasure becomes less and less, and the problems, frustrations, grievances and fears are increasing. You are in love, but you can not be with this man, because he is married.

And you want to save that drive and pleasure.

Author - Valentina Anisimova

Practicing psychologist, gestalt-therapist, specialist in work with dependencies.

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