which one is true? control your partner or not?

There is some gash that never appear on the body that hurt more than any things that bleeds. Spiritual abuse is as bad as physical abuse, if not worse. Just because a person doesn’t put their hands on you, it doesn’t mean they are not abusive. Abuse is control, abuse is disrespect. Abuse is internal pain. You shouldn’t accept emotional abuse and thinking its ok just because it’s not physical if you are afraid of when they are angry, if you are afraid of how they will react if you disrespect them, if you are afraid of what their response or reaction will be to you doing something, you are already experiencing this. Sometimes we want to be loved so badly that we can’t even tell that it’s not love.
Being alone may scars you but being in a bad relationship will scar you, you let go of a bad relationship because you stop caring about them, you let go because you started caring about yourself. It’s better to break your own heart by leaving rather than have someone else break your heart everyday while you stay with them and remember, the problem is that we want to be loved so badly that we can’t even tell that it’s not really love.