Fuck Contentment

in psychology •  7 years ago 

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Fuck Contentment

A while ago a realization struck me, something, I don’t know what reminded me of a story one of my mentors shared with me. So this guy had a goal to make 1k a day, and when he reached that the contentment hit him, he was pleased with that amount and became more relaxed.

He also started smoking weed, partying a lot more and of course, working less. After that his business failed, he smoked all the money and was broke again and returned to his mom’s basement. Of course, that was a precious lesson both for him and me, and he raised from there and got back and made even more money after that.

So, I realized that I’m somewhere in the same position as he was, contentment hit me since I only wanted to make fifty bucks per day in the beginning and now I’m making even more, and for a short period, I took it easier. I didn’t waste all the money on yayo and hookers as he did but instead, I invested them, but the idea is that I took it easier with my Steem game.

Don’t get me wrong; I’m still working more than most people just that I am working less than I used to back in the days when I just began, had nothing but tremendous aspirations and time. My time is a lot lesser now because of my studies than it was in the summer, when I was free so of course that I can’t work ten hours per day when I don’t have ten spare hours just that I feel that I work less than I used to, in the same amount of time.

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Keep on going

You see, not only in mine or my mentor’s case happened something like this but I’ve seen or heard stories of people that were pleased of what they have accomplished so far and stopped or took it easier and as I said it before in other posts, stagnancy is death.

You have to set goals that are huge enough so it will be a challenge to accomplish them so you will always have to pursue something, you will always be in movement looking for other opportunities to make your vision come true.

Another sad thing I saw are people that don’t even accomplish what they want but stop before that and are pleased with the outcome and take it easy from there on. You can’t do something like this; it’s constant improvement or nothing, you can’t just stop because you will die in a way or another. I wrote an in-depth post on this subject that I urge you to check out in case you want to know more.

To give you an example, I use to comment a lot more, in the beginning, now I’m mostly only replying to the comments I receive, and that’s all. Of course, I spend more time on Discord and working on my projects, but I won’t let that to be my excuse. I have no other excuse that I become contentment with my situation, which is excellent but there’s always room for growth.

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Conclusion

Life is an endless raw of trial and error, you fail, but you keep on going despite any feeling of stopping. Even if your situation is great you cannot let it become your limitation, you have to transcend it too, or it will become your coffin. You have to keep on going.

When I realized what’s happening, despite the fact that I had a long day and I was tired as fuck, despite the fact that I wasn’t in the mood for writing, I fired up an inspiring track, and I pushed myself out of that shitty state and started writing until 2 am.

This is just the beginning, now that I have resources like support and people reading my blog, a channel to share my ideas, I’m soon going to work on more projects, even besides those that I already started and besides running the Romanian community that’s almost 100 users big on Discord right now. More great stuff is going to happen from here on.

When’s enough going to be enough for you? Probably never. – Ray Kroc

Keep on going until you have reached your goals and even past that.

The pictures are from Pixabay: 1, 2, 3, 4.

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I've always been happier on the journey than when reaching my destination, and I used to think that was fine because the point was 'the journey itself'.

However, my next 'challenge' is to learn to be 'content' with doing less. I'm at that the stage of life where I'm almost done with 'doing' and 'going somewhere'. (I've just had my worst ever 5 day half term collapse from having worked solid 12 hour days since September.)

For the next 40 years I really just want to work mainly on sitting still, Zen Style, which is actually harder than you might think. I might also plant a few trees. Fom a Buddhist perspective I see this as evolutionary.

I think I might use the word contentment differently to you (but of course the real challenge is to transcend these concepts).

I think it happens to most of us. After going full throttle at something, we sometimes feel drained.

Like you say, stagnation is death. We just need to keep digging deep for that inner strength.

I wish you come back to your blazing self ASAP because you motivate someone like me.

I have to level up my game at the stage I was before, but I'm working on it, and hopefully, I'll soon be there. :)

Success is not a peak, but a long, arduous road with many intersections and no ending in sight.

It's scary and hard for most people, but challenging and fun for a few.

I'll have to agree on that one, the success it's a never-ending journey. It's also exciting when you think about the rewards that come once with it.

I believe it is human nature to continue to grow, expand, and become better than what we are. Never slow down the momentum because once it goes the other direction, you will hit rock bottom before you know it.

It's all about kaizening, constant growth but sadly, lately with all the workload I have to keep up I neglected that aspect form my life even if I know how important it is. Hopefully, I'll get to read more this week. :)

I love where your head is at... Keep it up, you are killing it!

It is important to set a big goal, but to go to it in small steps, in stages. So you will not be disappointed that you are moving too slowly. And so you will be able to reach the goal, getting with each new step more faith in myself. Yes, you have made another step! You could and the dream is getting closer. In the end, the few who are able to immediately grab a star from the sky! Do not demand from yourself all at once. But get better every day. There is no limit to perfection.

Exactly, getting a little better every day, progressing a little bit more every day, that's how I'm doing it for a long time now. Agreed, perfection is limitless; indeed, one can always improve himself.

Hey @guyfawkes4-20,
You are very right about that.
I noticed I also slowed down alot.
I used to write 2 posts per day, do at least 30 comments, ...
But I guess thats just how life is;
I'm a whole lot busier now so I got things taking my time eg @AIR-CLINIC.
Its gonna be good eventually!
Thanks for this reminder to frigging keep on working hard.
Cheers!

I know the feeling, I used to work a lot more but as you said, I'm way busier too thanks to all the projects I'm involved in, but I don't regret it even a bit. Great stuff is soon going to happen for everybody, no matter what. ;)

I believe our goals needs to evolve the same way we evolve in our lives.

Of course, long term goals should remain the same until we achieve them, only to them make another even more ambitious long term goal.

We need to keep us updated on our own circumstances and make our goals even more challenging every time we are able to.

I totally agree with that, and that's how I tried to do it, after accomplishing my goal I aimed ten times higher, even more than that, now let's see where this takes me. :)

Who is putting so much pressure on you? If you like it, all is well but if it makes you despise good things like contentment, then I am not so sure anymore.

You just nailed it man! I need to work harder to achieve my goals, I need to write more, to source for inspiration even when there seems to be none.... I need to be more creative..i need to raise the bar when I can jump above it.
when I joined steemit,i aimed at posting a poem every 48hours,but now,I'm targeting 1 poem every 24hours.

I really apprecate this article, it really helped

I also run a coworking space, and I believe it taught me that when you work for yourself, a routine becomes a great motivator. Just like the feeling of being forced to go to work 40 hours a week, if you force yourself to work for yourself despite how you might feet at the moment, then you'll get into a regular routine which will have big results in the long run. Just don't stop any you'll get there.

I'm pretty satisfied with my goals this year in that they push me to keep on producing even at times when I don't feel like doing much, however, I feel like I've become complacent in working towards continually growing my revenue stream and looking for new opportunities on steemit.

There is a japanese quote that basically says we should strive each day to be better than the previous day. I think that is a pretty awesome life long challenge.

Well put! Yet, there is one contentment state I will never give up. The understanding of the fact that people who thinks just like you, are all over the place. I keep finding people who find themselves keeping going and constantly improving. You are the one I found today 😉.
Can't wait to see what else will you share with us 😊.

Great reminder, I'm currently stagnating in certain aspects of my life like career and am now starting to branch out and try new things like blogging on steemit and brainstorming ways to be creative and create a product.

It's so important to keep growing through experience

It's always good to diversify yourself, not to be too dependent on one place, I'm trying to do that for myself right now too, but it's still work in progress.

I can relate in some of the aspect you described! but we need to push harder!

Success is not easy and it's certainly not for the lazy.

I wish a successful week! and congrats for what you achieved until now! cheers @guyfawkes4-20!

I think I finally found what is troubling me with your post: you mix complacency for contentment. Having said this, I will not be complacent and I will immediately start looking for another post to comment upon. Thanks for the motivating text!!

Hmm, I think that's a better word for the definition I have in mind, I couldn't find something that fits perfectly with the definition I have in Romanian, but they are both still kinda close.