Types of People and Success
About a week ago I was out with my friend @buzlealex, he’s an aspiring novelist with all the hopes in a future book, wanting to gain his freedom through writing, and as we got deeper, we started talking about money, Steem, and life in general.
After our talk, I concluded that our generation will never be able to make real money through the traditional ways and that we have to take full advantage of the new opportunities. For us, the classic “go to school, learn and get a well-paid job” is not a possibility anymore because the educational system is rigged, the teachers are incompetent, having no idea what they are talking about.
Also, just having any job is not a possibility of acquiring wealth either because there are no well-paid jobs, the employers give out only enough money so the employees can live. So we don’t have any traditional options, the only possibility for us to get a lifestyle that we love is by doing something revolutionary, like cryptocurrencies.
You see, even if you can't classify people because life is fluid, I consider that there are three major types of humans.

The Rich Ones
Here I’m not talking about those that pretend to be rich and spend all of their money on bling-bling only so they can make their stupid friends jealous, in this category I’m talking about the wealthy people that make a few millions every year.
You see, their kids don’t need to work anymore, they already have money so if the kids are superficial, they will only spend the money until they ruin all the wealth. But if the kids are taught well, they will be able to take their parents business to the next level.
But these people are already at the top; they have money and nor me, nor @buzlealex was born on a family like this, so of course, for us, this is not an option.

Middle Class without Ambition
Middle-class families, or also known as the poor ones, are those that live from paycheck to paycheck, that have enough to live and maybe even to have some trips now and then but they are not wealthy.
The problem with the middle-class families is that they have the wrong mentality and they teach it to their kids. They teach them that wealth is not for them, that they will remain poor and it’s better to go with a safe job that puts food on the table instead of taking risks and changing your life. They teach the kids that they cannot do it, destroying their hopes and dreams, limiting them to a life of misery and sadness.
The people born in a middle-class family, have only two options, they either accept the mentality their relatives feed them, or they break out of the paradigm and change their life.

Middle Class with Ambition
Both, me and @buzlealex were born in a family more or less like this, but at least we don’t choose a life of regret, a life of surrender and sadness because there is a thing called growth. No matter the medium you were born in, there’s always room for improvement. You see, from this category are part the Steve Jobs of today, the ones that start from scratch but still make it happen by taking full advantage of their opportunities.
The only possibility we have are the things like blockchain, like Steem and this is all I need, I am going to take full advantage of this opportunity and shift my life around. I won’t probably become a millionaire, but I’ll make just enough money to call myself wealthy in Romania.
As I was talking with @fingersik on the chat a while ago, we’re already making a full salary from a few posts, more money than anyone we know and this is already success considering that I’m here for only seven months and he’s for nine.

Conclusion
If you weren’t born into a wealthy family already, then it means that you are in one of the last two categories, which one is up to you. You get to decide if the McDonald's job is enough for you because that’s all you're going to get, or if you want to take action and change your life entirely.
The power is in your hands my friend, you either make it or you surrender and live a life of quiet desperation. You have the right tools, Steem and cryptocurrencies, if you don’t know how to put them in practice read some of my older posts, they might help you, but you have no excuses for failure. You have everything you need to succeed; you just need to want it bad enough.
You either take action and change your life, or you accept your misery and go back and eat some shitty food, your choice.
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@guyfawkes4-20 Our line of thoughts are kind of similar (a compliment for me). You just keep churning out post I can relate perfectly with...Thank you for that.
I don't know why people especially the so called educated are still clinching to that old cliché of 'go to school and get a good job', that is clearly no more working for a lot of them.
The best thing to happen to me is dropping out of the university (though I still went to another and graduated just say I did it). It made me to start looking or sniffing around for opportunities. I discovered back in 2008 that opportunities abound on the internet and since then I am always searching or eagerly waiting to discover new ones.
A lot of 'smart' people are been held down by 9-5 because for them that is the only way. It is what they have been fed and embedded in their mentalities. They went to school and are trained for that so it is easy and safe. In my country, a lot of people even educated ones still consider people like me that sit in front of the computer all day with no 9-5 as lazy, not well to do person.
Sadly, you cannot force people to look at life from another perspective. How I wish they can understand we are no more in 1970s, we now have the internet, cryptocurrency, blogging, internet marketing, Steemit and many more. I am not currently making much on Steemit but I am making more than the full month salary in my old job in a week here. And the better part...I have more freedom.
That is the kind of life of freedom I have been striving and dreaming of...and it can only get better.
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I am happy to know that you feel that way. And you just keep on making amazing comments, longer and more valuable than what a big chunk of Steemians are posting, my appreciation for that.
I know what you mean, I am keeping out an eye for opportunities like this since about 2013-2014, and seven months ago I finally found what I was looking for.
Most of those "smart" people are just some obedient puppets that memorized everything and held their head down and only because they have a degree now, they think they can look down at people like us. But, they only make me laugh most of the time. :)))
Lol, dude, I had a paragraph about the 1970s in the first draft of this post, but I cut it off since I was repeating myself.
I am right there too; I'm making in a day sometimes more than someone from my country is making in a full month of work. It is truly amazing, living the dream. :D
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I agree with your introduction and think that today, open-mindedness and social skills are some of the most prerequisites for getting rich. I believe that that is the winning mentality, along with risk acceptance, as you pointed out.
I would also add the fourth category of people - the poorest ones, virtually with no chance regardless of the mentality. If you are born in a poor family in one of the poorest countries, where there is no internet, you are unfortunately condemned to stay poor. Even if you try to emigrate and succeed, you are too far behind everyone else if you discover a PC at the age of 25-35.
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Open-mindedness and social skills don't only do wonders for getting rich but for any other field of our lives, especially human relationships.
Sadly, you are right; some people are so far behind that it seems impossible to break out of their situation. But, maybe for them, success doesn't mean to get rich, but only to have a decent job since it's far better than what they had before.
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I am on a similar situations like yours just that in a different country.
As you know, in Venezuela salaries are totally worthless, regular jobs get like 20 dollars monthly and minimum wage gets like 5dollars per month.
Now, the actual purchasing power is a little bit higher since there are some food with subsidized prices, but still the employees here have miserable lives, which is kind of sad because they didn’t make anything wrong.
So, for people like you and me, with difficult situations caused by our poor countries, being part of something like steemit and crypto can be potentially life changing big time!
That’s why I am putting most of my days here so I can grow my profile.
Technology can make wonders and crypto is just beginning so this times are clearly exciting for everyone here.
I think with the right attitude, anyone can find the way of turning their live around for the good. There are always options. We just need to look for them and eventually find them.
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Happily, we're both able to earn something way better through Steem. It's sad to see so many people giving away most of their time for a job they hate only so they can have food on the table. But still, they could shit their lives around if they would really want to.
I'm investing almost all of my spare time in Steem because I firmly believe this is the future. We're living exciting times; the future is looking amazing. :D
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Your analysis is quite interesting! I come also from a middle class family and my parents always told and well still tell me the only way out is to study and get a nice job. I don't really know if this is really what I want. I don't really like or love my major but it has quite good opportunities in the future. At least that is what I've been told...
I think I have to keep looking for that one thing I really love to do and then everything will become clearer at least I hope so ^^
Anyway I drifted away sry! This article is really great and deeply speaking the truth! Thank you for offering this other perspective :D
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I am in the same position as you, they still keep on telling me that college is the way, but they have no idea. I'm waiting to grow my wallet and show them what's possible to do here. It's already impressive, but I want to surprise them big time.
Just do something you like and be the best at it, the money will follow. Steem is a great opportunity, probably you already noticed it.
Thanks a lot. :D
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I think they will be really surprised and proud at the same time!
Yeah steem is really a great opportunity but it will still need some time to grow :D
Thanks a lot for your encouriging words!
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I agree with most of what you are saying but I personally believe that there is a fourth category of individuals - i.e. people living in poverty who are oppressed by systemic issues that are unlikely to overcome.
This comment isn't meant to be antagonistic. I'm just mentioning it because I am in University for social work so we focus on information about oppression in society and social justice issues - just a different perspective.
I agree though that in many cases, an individuals situation is based on mindsets that are perpetuated over generations. With the right empowerment - people can overcome situational factors which impact wealth
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Yes, you are right. But maybe, the definition of success, of getting rich for a person in that situation is only to have a decent job and be able to sleep with a full stomach, which I think it is possible. But yeah, I totally get what you mean, and it is really sad to see people in a situation of complete poverty.
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that's a really good point. Definitions of success may be different for each person.
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I'm pretty far away from being able to count what I make off Steemit to replace the income from my full time job, but am hopeful.
I have friends that are middle class without ambition. It's hard to convince them they have to work for something if they want it. It's a bit of a drag sometimes, but I think I'm finally getting through to them.
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Think about it, no matter how much you make online, there's always a place where you can go and live like a king. But I know that it would be harder for you since you have a family and everything. :)
I know the feeling, a lot of my friends just complain that they don't have enough time even if they just waste it all on useless stuff.
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Cough gaming Cough is what most of them waste it on.
I would be down moving somewhere with a lower cost of living. It would be a matter of convincing Mrs. King into moving away from her family. I think I'm a couple bad winters away from making that happen. If the stars aline I'll be making enough on here to make that a reality.
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Oh, no, you didn't. You just said the G word, how dare you? Lol, just kidding. It's sad to see people playing games for free when they could try to earn something over here. :)
That's a plan right there, and the best part is that it's possible. In a few winters, you will be able to earn enough so you can even buy a house and still have money to live like a king in a country like Romania. :)
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How cold does it get in Romania (sigh if you post in °C I might have to break out google, but it's something I better learn if I'm going to move out of the USA).
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Huh, cold as fuck sometimes. In winter it usually's between 0 (32) and -5 (32) for the most part but it can go even as low as -10 (14). Last winter it went as low as -17 (1.4), and I'm living in the warm part of the country, but that is very rare. I hope the conversion is good enough, lol. :)
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lol thanks!
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You are 100% right. We have to look to the future and what the opportunities will be. I think we will be utilizing social media and platforms as our main source of incomes. Thus why I take Steemit seriously and building connections. Great post my friend!
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You might be right; anything can happen in five-ten years. Just imagine how many followers we will have a few years from now, being some of the first people to join this new platform. It's like getting early on Facebook just that we get paid in real money here, not just worthless likes. :)
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I know that is what I think about always. It could be massive for us building right now.
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This is very correct.
This is what we heard while we were kids. The reality has dawned on us now. If not for cryptocurrency and the internet in general, the world would have been overwhelmed with hopelessness.
Your conclusion is quite stern and sincere. We got no excuse for failure or for mediocrity.
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Indeed, I have no idea where I would be right now if crypto and the internet wouldn't exist. Maybe I would be the one creating them, who knows, lol.
Thank you for your comment. :)
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Wow.
Spot on. I am currently climbing the ladder. I am viewed as “successful” and an definitely part of the middle class with ambition.
The problem is that nothing is good enough. I am currently wrestling with a decision I need to make: stay in my current position, which I love and have success with, or take a new opportunity with larger potential, but little experience with...
Ah, life choices.....
Thanks for the read.
I am following.
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I think it's all about climbing the ladder, no matter where we are right now. Huh, I feel you, it's never easy to choose. Think about what you can accomplish from your current position and what you would be able to if you take the new opportunity, and put them in balance, see which one serves your purpose best. :D
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Thank you
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You have no idea how true your words are, bro. Where I come from the system is not just rigged, it's corrupt and virtually non-existent, having eaten into its own fabric thanks to greed and incontinence. For us young generation, we definitely have to look to a different shore. Thank Goodness cryptocurrency is providing us with that.
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You're right, but maybe the worst part is that everybody knows it's a failed system, but they keep on pretending it is good. The teachers keep on playing the teaching game, thinking that memorization is the same as learning and the kids just obey mostly because they are scared and have no vision.
You have no idea how grateful I am for being part of this ecosystem. :D
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Wow.. i must break through those walls one way or the other.. this post is meant for me.
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Great text!
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Nice
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