This is a huge concern for me as we are adopting and attachment issues can cause a lot of issues.
Side note have you heard of the @asapers, its a new curation thing I started with a few others, we opened up a post promotion channel and we are always looking for great stuff to curate life this.
I guess the best thing one could do is to prepare as much as possible. The fact that you're self-reflective and rational enough to already know that attachment-styles could be a potential issue, is encouraging. You're on the right track.
I don't have kids of my own but have many surrogates (I'm a teacher). In the end, and as cliché as it might be, a lot can be accomplished with love, discipline, boundaries and consistency. I'd encourage you to not just look at the possible problems (like attachment styles) but to look at possible tools, like how children learn (positive and negative reinforcement). What environment will be the most conducive.
In the end you are the parent, and you know better. Never forget that. Also, it's probably going to be 50% preparation and 50% "winging it". Sorry for randomly popping in on your comment. Just wanted to wish you good luck!
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Thank you, we appreciate your feed back. Im sure there will be lots of winging it. Haha. And welcome to @asapers.
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Just opened it. Great idea! I hereby declare to write more quality content!
I agree with you. It mat cause The problem but There is posibility of compensation in attachment area. Great work for you nad your hubby but I am sure you will manage!
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Haha you already write quality content 😁
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Hi there insideoutlet. I understand. I encourage you to go and read the book called 'Attached' by Amir Levine. It was revelatory book for understanding this subject. I work with helping people 'go secure', healing old attachment wounds. I have worked through many of my own issues, and I watch my clients go secure after the work.
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