Causes of teenage suicide: how to prevent the tragedy...

Teen suicide every year is gaining momentum and spreading to all over the world. In the first place in the world for this indicator, China, Japan, several European countries, Russia is in 4th place on indicators...

Popular recent group of death in social networks advocating death as a protest to society, self-expression, a lot of guys following the band already took his own life...is Now over the activities of such groups is closely watched, but the percentage of child suicide is only growing, and this means that the main problem is not solved and the group of death do not always play a major cause of frustration in life of child....

The causes of child suicide run deeper, you can understand them, if you understand what is going on with the teenager at his age...

That raging hormones you know everything, Yes, it can cause drastic mood swings, depressive States, but even in this the root of the problem. The main problem is in the child's environment, the acceptance of his personality in the group (school, among peers) and of course the first alcohol, drugs and unrequited love.

If the whole talk about the most common reasons are the following:

1. Family problems. Quarrel, shouting, physical abuse, alcoholism, and the main mistake of the parents unwillingness or inability to understand your child. Parents often make one mistake, the phrase "Yes, what can you have problems at your age" they discourage the child's desire to share what's troubling, he begins to understand that his feelings do not matter, even the most intimate. Suicides are not uncommon in families considered to be quite normal because of this problem, no one takes seriously mental anguish of the child.

2. First love. Also a very common cause, unrequited feelings, and feelings in view of the raging hormones are really strong, find the exit in death. If the child has no opportunity to Express their feelings, get support, he decides to commit suicide. We had once a case of a 17-year-old girl jumped from the 9th floor, because the guy dumped her...

3. Problems in the school. School at some point in a child's life is his all friends here, company, is it the social environment in which he is not a year to reside. If the school the child is never found a place that did not become part of the team this situation is very traumatizing his psyche, he feels like an outcast. And sometimes adolescents themselves and even mock their peers, which further exacerbates the situation.

4. Computer games. Full immersion in the virtual world leads to loss of reality by the child if in his life there is no living communion, friends, children often take their lives with suicide.

5. The introduction into adulthood. Just in adolescence, the child realizes that childhood is over, carefree time in the past and in the future he doesn't know frightens him is not knowledge. Appear needs, the first dreams and disappointments associated with the financial situation in the family, the child sees that Bob has everything and there is nothing parents can't afford it...global issues Such as social injustice, inequality of different population groups concerned about the baby...If not in time to notice this trend and to explain to the child that at it still all ahead, it is possible to lose...

6. Alcohol and drugs. The first use of alcohol and drugs in the company very often lead to suicide. Intoxicated any wrong word, any conflict situation can lead to suicide.

Reasons actually weight, and one solution - we need to try to listen to the child, be interested in his life, Hobbies, and more importantly to communicate with him heart to heart. No need to shy away from his problems, that all this is not serious, pass...of Course sometimes all the problems are inflated to the size of an elephant, but it's the life of a child, it's important to him, and therefore should matter to parents...Sometimes in children there are also quite serious trouble, but they will remain confidential, if the child does not trust parents and share with them my soul...

You can often hear when a child's parents have committed suicide to tell about how all was well that they just don't understand why their child took his own life, going to dances, clubs, school, everything was fine, and here is a mountain...the Baby just didn't share their problems doesn't mean that they were not. Unobtrusive need to take an active part in a child's life, it will reduce the likelihood of tragic events if not 100%, then 90% for sure...

Take care of yourself and loved ones. Thank you for your attention.